Spock and Uhura are lovers, and from the first film she had indifference with Kirk but is conduit to understand Spock a little more, but her instinct's and responses to scenes fit well. It's a style; her tenderness, her outward devotion, and love. I'm also a woman so I understand those things so I'm phrasing it that way. When a man does those things in the JJverse between Kirk and Spock? You can call anything you want. When I notice a man's touch between Kirk and Spock I'll let you know.How is that different than a man's?