So what's kosher here.

[Trekker4747]

Without any details I'm at an apointment today and I'm talking to the gal.

And she's wearing this shirt that... well really shows off her ample breasts.

They're pretty much on display. The shirt buttons up to just under her breasts they're cupped together nicely by her bra and the sides of the shirt, I mean the suckers are right there.

So in this case is it OK to look at them? I mean, she has to know men are going tolook at them when they're on display like that. Would she be "right" to get upset by me looking at her ample clevage when she's on display like this? I'm not saying she's "ask for" getting attacked either verbally or physically, but how upset can she get if a man is staring at her chest when she's putting it out there like that?

 

[SalvorHardin]

The woman herself would probably tell you it is not OK to look at the boobs, even if she has them on display.

She might even tell you you win extra points if you look at her face and not give a single glance at her boobs, even if she has them on display.

But who cares. Boobs are nice and if they are there I will look. Can't help it. It's like they are black holes sucking my eyes towards them

Doesn't mean one have to stare and drool, but still ....

 

[Trekker4747]

Well, I looked this gal in the face most of the time, I admit to the occasional glance down but I did it carefully an "hidden" in my talking to her as part of moving my eyes while talking.

It was really hard too because I'm not good at looking people in the eyes/face when talking to them. But, oh my god they were RIGHT THERE.

Seriously, these babies are burned into my memory.

 

[Kestra]

I prefer that a guy doesn't stare there, but a little looking is understandable. I mean there are women where even I can't help looking.

 

[Trekker4747]

I prefer that a guy doesn't stare there, but a little looking is understandable. I mean there are women where even I can't help looking.

But see, if you prefer a guy to not star there why (in theory/sake of discussion) why wear something that draws so much attention to them?

It's one thing if it was a beach where everyone is showing them off and such a thing is expected. But this was a more formal situation and the girls were just right there in all of their freckled deliciousness.

 

[Kestra]

I prefer that a guy doesn't stare there, but a little looking is understandable. I mean there are women where even I can't help looking.

But see, if you prefer a guy to not star there why (in theory/sake of discussion) why wear something that draws so much attention to them?

Honestly, they're just big and it's difficult to find a properly fitted top that doesn't draw attention to them. I'd have to walk around in baggy t-shirts all the time if I didn't want to draw any attention at all.

 

[Trekker4747]

I prefer that a guy doesn't stare there, but a little looking is understandable. I mean there are women where even I can't help looking.

But see, if you prefer a guy to not star there why (in theory/sake of discussion) why wear something that draws so much attention to them?

Honestly, they're just big and it's difficult to find a properly fitted top that doesn't draw attention to them. I'd have to walk around in baggy t-shirts all the time if I didn't want to draw any attention at all.

Regular T-Shirt, sweatshirt, they're covered. Sure.

A shirt that buttons up half way, cups and seperates them and they're all but completely exposed for one to look at? Something all together different.

One would be staring at them just because they're boobs and there.

One would be staring at them because they're boobs, on dispaly and there!

 

[An Officer]

If they were "out there", then she won't be surprised if you take an occasional look.

 

[FordSVT]

Trekker, there is a difference between "looking" and "staring".

As long as you initiate the conversation with direct eye contact and go out of your way to not stare at her tits, she probably wouldn't mind and would probably understand if she caught you sneaking a quick peek. Women like to feel attractive, but they don't like to be creeped-out.

Capiche?

 

[An Officer]

And here I thought you were going to post about meat... turns out I wasn't far wrong.

 

[JuanBolio]

You can look at whatever you want in public. You can even stare if you want to. There's no law. If its in a professional environment you might have to worry about sexual harassment bullshit (Not that all sexual harassment is bullshit, but cases which involve nothing more than looking are), but aside from that - look where you please.

 

[An Officer]

^ Have a strange man twice your size stare at your crotch all day, when you have no clue as to his intent, then get back to us about how that made you feel...

 

[Hoser]

^ Have a strange man twice your size stare at your crotch all day, when you have no clue as to his intent, then get back to us about how that made you feel...

There's an opening for TNZ mod?

 

[Frodo Lives]

This is why dark sunglasses were invented. Well, this, and hangovers.

 

[RAMA]

Look but don't stare..I saw a woman with an amazing cleavage last weak, and I know she knew I was looking, but some guys wouldn't take their eyes off them. That's just creepy.

RAMA

 

[Spaceman Spiff]

Go ahead and look, but tell her that you're doing so. It'll make the whole scenario much more comfortable.

 

[JonathonWally]

^ Have a strange man twice your size stare at your crotch all day, when you have no clue as to his intent, then get back to us about how that made you feel...

Got any volunteers in mind?

 

[the 4th hanson bro]

Am I the only one who thinks a motorboat would be appropriate?

 

[Holdfast]

Go ahead and look, but tell her that you're doing so. It'll make the whole scenario much more comfortable.

Always with the helpful comment.

 

[DeafPoet]

If they're that far out there, I say go nuts and look. But don't stare. You're having a conversation, after all.