I tend to trust and believe people more when they deserve respect but do not put their ego on display to demand it. I lose my faith when that happens.
I'm not singling out Orci. Lots of people have their words to come back to haunt them later. He just added to the potential. I don't think it was necessary to say it twice, especially after apologizing after the first time which I think he later rescinded somewhat.
To achieve continued success in the world of entertainment, one has to be ambitious and confident, while simultaneously indulging in the farcical dance of "I'm blessed, and I don't know how all this success happened, thank the Maker."
Orci made one simple mistake, he revealed he was human, and tired of ill-qualified people saying stupid things about work they could never accomplish.
Yeah, I'm not saying that what Orci said was the smartest of things to do, but that doesn't make me wish him ill. Part of the risk of any artistic endeavor is people not understanding your work or not appreciating it.
In addition, having EVERY SINGLE public comment dissected, examined, and used to prove a preconceived notion.
I imagine the vast majority of those howling at Orci's rudeness have said far worse.