Then should I be making the argument that these books should be connected to continuity of the movies?
They
are connected to the continuity of the movies. All novels have to be consistent with the continuity presented in the canon. (And, now that the Trek canon has
two continuities, any novel set in the new continuity has to be consistent with what the canonical installments set in that continuity establish about that continuity.)
What you are actually asking for is for there to be a rule that new films or episodes cannot contradict novels set in the same continuity as those new films or episodes. The problem with this, of course, is that it is impractical -- the producers/writers will not likely have had the time to keep up with all new novels set in the given continuity, and only a fraction of the audience reads the novels.
The other problem with this is that the idea of canonical installments not contradicting previous canonical installments is illusionary. New canonical installments contradict old ones all the time -- they just come up with special ways to explain it. I.E., Klingons having bumpy foreheads eventually being explained in ENT. So, really, just like new canonical installments can contradict novels at will, so can new canonical installments contradict old canonical installments at will. The only real difference is that new novels cannot contradict old canonical installments, but new canonical installments can.
Whatever term we go with I think the issue is I would like the books to feel like there a lvel importance to them beyond just being a good read.
In other words, you want to be able to pretend that all of Trek is one completely consistent universe, in order to create the mental illusion that it is all "real." This is impossible and always has been -- indeed, as I noted above, it is not true even if you only accept the canonical installments and reject everything else.
In other words, you need to make that choice
yourself, to say, "I interpret these books as having actually happened in the Star Trek Universe" if you really want to create the mental illusion of it all having "actually happened."
I do think some novels though are enhanced such as the Ds9 relauch novel sby the fact they they have in essence become offical canon/part of continuity
But the DS9 Relaunch has
not become in essence official canon, any more than, say, a sequel to
Romeo and Juliet can become part of the Shakespearean canon. The canon of Shakespeare is what it is, and only Shakespeare could add to it. Sure, a sequel to R&J won't contradict the canon, and it may well be a perfectly brilliant play that's well worth watching and enjoying, and making it a part of your interpretation of the original R&J. Similarly, with Trek, the canon is what it is, and only the owners of Trek can add to it -- nobody else can.
due to the fact that we all know it is unlikely we will ever see another movie or show set in the Prime 24th century.
Exactly. So just make the choice to make the DS9 Relaunch part of your interpretation of the original Trek continuity, and ignore anyone who tells you that they don't matter just because they could be contradicted. Well, as this new film demonstrates, the canon can choose to ignore old canon, too -- it's ALL equally in danger of being overwritten or contradicted by new canon, so who cares?
I would like some Abramsverse novels that are at least sort of part of the offical canon. I know things can change but it would be nice if the movie writers,since they would be connected to the works, would be somewhat more faithful to them than maybe other books thus it would would give those books a level intrest to me beyond the simple fact of whether or not the story is good or not.
Dude, they're telling stories, not writing history books. If something has to not be contradicted by other installments for you to be interested in it, I feel sorry for you. Does the fact that
The Dark Knight is not a part of the Batman canon mean that you can't enjoy it as much as a Batman comic that is?