Janeway gave Seven the opportunity to make a choice after she had been thoroughly brainwashed to be incapable of not agreeing with Janeway's point of view in this matter.
Sounds Borgy to me.
Right, because the Borg gave Annika a free choice to be with her own people or serve a totalitarian techno-cult. Yes, that was very respectful of her rights of them. Yes, they clearly put her rights above their own when it came to honoring her choices. The little girl screaming was just the brainwash of her parents coming apart.
Seven was given the choice, literally, to return to the Borg after a sufficient passage of time. Before this, she was free to leave the ship for any planet she wanted, once Janeway was satisfied of Seven's
deprogramming. Seven was free to compare humanity with all of the other alien races they encountered along the way. Seven was free to not only continually challenge Janeway on her tactics, but to also be heard and considered. Not once did Seven choose to say "Enough! I'm out of here." She could have at any time.
Seven
chose to remain aboard Voyager.
Yes, we could interpret Janeway's conviction as oppression. Kirk took the same kind of value stands - knowing they were his biased beliefs, and not necessarily universal.
These captains knew themselves, took stands, and didn't evaporate in a gray fog of cultural relativism. Not when lives were at stake.
Why should we believe allowing the Borg to use Annika up and spit her out is "enlightened?" Why
not take back what was wrongfully lost? It's called doing the right thing in spite of the letter of the law (though in this case, I don't think Seven's rescue ran counter to the Fed Charter. The Fed is in a state of war with the Borg, and that was due to the Borg's actual threat of actual destruction).
Yes, you can respect other cultures, but if you think you are above bias, then you're in denial. Better to know your biases and make choices with judgments you can withstand and still sleep at night. For any human with an intelligent conscience.
If one takes issue with oppression, why not take it with the Borg? More likely, some just rail against authority figures of any kind, perhaps because one is free of ever having to be responsible for the welfare of a group of people who have freely volunteered to participate.
Using the language of rights isn't enough. Rights must also be demonstrated - and willing to be held accountable under a cold, critical eye.
Cults know all the victim language, but in the end, they want your metaphorical soul if not your actual one. And yes, cult collectives do exist in the world today, on massive scale. The collective takes on supernatural, unaccountable, authoritative characteristics, and nothing outside its authorization has any validity whatsoever.
The problem with that is, that is real, actual brainwashing, if you care about that sort of thing. Luckily some of us are in a position not to have our own minds arrested by that perspective alone.
The complaints of anti-authority positions are easily endured compared with the threat of actual totalitarian oppression of an actual cult.
Again, in democracy you are free to run off and join the Borg if you want. In the Borg, you are not free to make that decision. Face it, some of us really don't have a problem with brainwashing, do we. We just might have a problem with mainstream opinion. Best of luck with that opinion in the Borg!