Yup. She called me last week and claims she'll be sending me money eventually when her finances work out. I'll believe it when it happens.
Yeah...I wouldn't be holding my breath, unfortunately. If you get anything at all, at this point, it's a gift.
Yes, the house is vacant. I had it boarded up (you can't get vacant-property insurance unless it's boarded up).
You mean there are literally boards covering the windows and everything? I don't think they would let me do that here...not to mention the fact that my window frames are not wood, so it would destroy my windows and probably the vinyl siding as well....
Not much point to moving back into the house. I'm making arrangements to give the bank the deed in lieu of payment. I'm behind on the mortgage. Unemployment ran out in June.
Yeah...I still have some time left on my unemployment as I was able to drum up a bit of contract work here and there over the past 17 months (about 18 weeks, total). But my COBRA ran out from IBM, and the contract work didn't come with benefits, of course...so right now I have no medical insurance. It REALLY sucks, since I've had some health issues lately, and no doctor will see me in this town without insurance. Never thought that with a resume like mine, I'd be in this situation. In accounting, you pay a LOT of dues early in your career with the idea being that it will all pay off later and you'll make some big bucks. But this recession has really kicked the shit out of that idea. Now, they don't want people like me - I'm overqualified (translated: too expensive).
So far, thanks to the contract work and extremely frugal living (I've lived off of spaghetti, rice and PB&J for 17 months, do not use my car except to go to the store and for job hunting, have not left the city of Atlanta at all, had NO Christmas at all (and likely won't have one this year either), and with the exception of a few CDs, have purchased no extras of any kind), I am still current on my bills. But this is not living - what I have been doing for the past 17 months is merely existing. I don't go anywhere, I don't do anything that involves spending any money at all. And there is only so long you can live like that. Plus, even the contract work has pretty much dried up now...so I had to do something drastic in order to survive. So off to Alaska I go.
Hey...when I went there the first time after college, I arrived in Anchorage with only 2 suitcases. At least this time, I'll have more than that!
Still, I feel like a refugee. Thank goodness for my friends up there, who are letting me live with them for a month while my stuff is in transit...because I have no money for a month-long stay in a hotel. I'd have been living in my car if it wasn't for them!
Hard to imagine that 2 years ago, I was making $100K a year and hadn't a financial worry in the world.
Anyway, I'm living in my parents' home (mortgage was paid off back in the '80s. My parents are gone and my dad told my brother (the executor) he wanted me to live here for the rest of my life.
Well, that's good, anyway - at least you have a place to live! What are the job prospects where you are living now? Hopefully, better than where you were... What do you do, anyway? Is your field of work picking up at all where you live now? I hope so!
You might look into turning the deed over to the bank in lieu of payment. Depending on your financial situation, the bank might accept it. Consult a financial advisor before making such as decision. Not sure what it would do to your credit rating.
Yeah...I think giving your house back to the bank really screws up your credit. And I have the unfortunate circumstance of being an accountant, by profession...a profession where they routinely run background checks on job applicants and outright reject those applicants whose credit is bad. No one wants to hire a financial adviser whose own finances are FUBAR, you know?
So giving the house back to the bank will only be my last resort.