It's really a shame that some folks take this shit so serious, that it seems to destroy their enjoyment of a TV Show that has been a staple of Sci-Fi Entertainment for 50 years.
Rigid Consistency has NEVER been a hallmark of Star Trek through the years, and anybody who complains about that now with DISCOVERY, seems to have forgotten this.
IMO, half the fun of being a super-fan of TREK, is making it all fit in ones own head.
There's no need to actually convince other's that one way is better or worse, as long as what you believe makes it FUN for you.
If it doesn't, then perhaps it's time to do a reality check of your entertainment choices, cause what we got in Season-1 is now canon and there's no changing that.
(until the next Trek Series that comes along decides to alter things... again)