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[RJDiogenes]

Or perhaps "sex hobbyist."

 

[RAMA]

I think its about attitude..because everyone who thinks what you do here basically is saying the same thing. When you have that mental outlook you're really not going to find much. I live in one of the least populated areas of NJ, and I could find 25 girls in about a day that I'd want to date, and maybe out of that number 1 or 2 would be relationship material. You get out of it what you put into it.

But where are you meeting these girls? I don't even encounter 25 people throughout the day, let alone girls I'd want to date. Maybe there's some crazy social scene that I'm missing out on, but I honestly don't even know where I would go about meeting that many people in a day.

I work in public often, I can meet them at work...I can meet them at the gym. I prefer casual places. When its warmer I could meet them on the boardwalk, beach, at the park(s), stores are a great place to meet women! I probably encounter around several thousand people a day.

Oh and if you really only see 25 people a day...you should think much more seriously about the internet. I for one have no interest in dating sites, but if I went on local chats, or regional chat rooms, I could prob find someone interesting.

RAMA

 

[Amaris]

Or perhaps "sex hobbyist."

I like that one.

Maybe, "sex gadabout."

 

[pookha]

i am divorced but it has been so long ago i just think myself as single.

 

[Bears Discover Fire]

Or perhaps "sex hobbyist."

Might want to be careful with that one. A "hobbyist" in this context is a self-identifier for a specific subset of johns who troll the internet for prostitutes, then rate their sexual encounters in graphic detail on review sites dedicated to such purposes. The review sites provide communities where the johns can trade tips on how to keep their activities from their wives and law enforcement, how to lie about STDs, etc.

I'd provide a link to one were it not against board rules.

 

[Mr. Laser Beam]

I do like kids, and I admit I do feel an impulse (of sorts) to be a dad. Ultimately, though, I've decided I would suck at it - I mean I know precisely sod-all about what it takes to be a dad. In the end I just don't think I could handle the responsibility.

Have you considered getting a cat?

No.

And again, I am not asexual. I do want to have sex. Just not *first*.

Does “first” mean before marriage? Before dinner? Or before hello?

Before marriage.

 

[cultcross]

In a relationship - common law married, you could say, if that had any standing whatsoever. Public-sector-wage-married would be my phrase.

 

[Robert Maxwell]

Or perhaps "sex hobbyist."

Might want to be careful with that one. A "hobbyist" in this context is a self-identifier for a specific subset of johns who troll the internet for prostitutes, then rate their sexual encounters in graphic detail on review sites dedicated to such purposes. The review sites provide communities where the johns can trade tips on how to keep their activities from their wives and law enforcement, how to lie about STDs, etc.

I'd provide a link to one were it not against board rules.

Oh God. There are people who do this? I don't know why I'm surprised.

 

[Bears Discover Fire]

Or perhaps "sex hobbyist."

Might want to be careful with that one. A "hobbyist" in this context is a self-identifier for a specific subset of johns who troll the internet for prostitutes, then rate their sexual encounters in graphic detail on review sites dedicated to such purposes. The review sites provide communities where the johns can trade tips on how to keep their activities from their wives and law enforcement, how to lie about STDs, etc.

I'd provide a link to one were it not against board rules.

Oh God. There are people who do this? I don't know why I'm surprised.

Yep and hookers there aren't "hookers", "prostitutes" or even "sex workers", they're "providers". Human trafficking is just a myth concocted by evil feminists who need to be bent over a table and shown that men are still in charge, and divorce is everyone's fault but the hobbyist's own.

 

[propita]

Married coming up on 15 years, after living together for 8 years and being together for 1 year. My Mom says we should just celebrate 25 years together in 2012 (before the world ends, that is )

 

[Sector 7]

Very well. It has been created.

Good! Did you put up a pic?

My avatar from here. In case any of you want to find me there. I'm listed as SubcommanderR

You should not have told us. Now people are going to skew the results.

Or perhaps "sex hobbyist."

Might want to be careful with that one. A "hobbyist" in this context is a self-identifier for a specific subset of johns who troll the internet for prostitutes, then rate their sexual encounters in graphic detail on review sites dedicated to such purposes. The review sites provide communities where the johns can trade tips on how to keep their activities from their wives and law enforcement, how to lie about STDs, etc.

I'd provide a link to one were it not against board rules.

I am glad you didn't. It sounds sicko to me.

 

[Myasishchev]

In a relationship - common law married, you could say

If you're in a state that recognizes it, you are now.

 

[Subcommander R.]

You should not have told us. Now people are going to skew the results.

Aw, skew away if you really want to. So far I've met one other person.

 

[Kirk's_Tights]

In a relationship - common law married, you could say, if that had any standing whatsoever. Public-sector-wage-married would be my phrase.

Same here, but I am happy to say that, very soon, I will no longer be babysitting a 39 year old big baby anymore <3

Good riddance, tiny.

 

[Myasishchev]

Harsh toke.

 

[John O.]

On the fringes you'll have sex addicts and celibates.

We prefer the term "sex enthusiast."

You mean we prefer the term sex enthusiast

 

[John O.]

Yep and hookers there aren't "hookers", "prostitutes" or even "sex workers", they're "providers". Human trafficking is just a myth concocted by evil feminists who need to be bent over a table and shown that men are still in charge, and divorce is everyone's fault but the hobbyist's own.

Finally, someone brave enough to speak the truth!

 

[Gryffindorian]

In a relationship - common law married, you could say, if that had any standing whatsoever. Public-sector-wage-married would be my phrase.

Same here, but I am happy to say that, very soon, I will no longer be babysitting a 39 year old big baby anymore <3

Good riddance, tiny.

Wow, have you finally decided to call it quits with that verbally abusive partner of yours? Good decision.

 

[gojiragirl]

Single. Just dumped by boyfriend of 4 years over religion. Currently working on psyching myself to get back into the dating game.

 

[scotpens]

Single. Just dumped by boyfriend of 4 years over religion.

Meaning he thought he was God and you didn’t?

(Yeah, it’s old. But still funny.)