Some parts made me chuckle and he made some good points I'd never thought about (misplaced happiness at the end with the 12 surviving members of the Resistance).
No offense, but I'm having trouble seeing how anyone could
miss that, unless they feel that the survival of our principal characters literally outweighs the deaths of hundreds of others?
Vader wants to usurp the Emperor, and the Emperor is itching to replace Vader. And they’re very, very open about it.
Huh? Just because they're both open about it
to Luke doesn't make them open about it
in general.
Then R1 comes along, and hammers in what’s hinted in ANH: that level of squabbling is pretty normal all the way down the command line. Everybody is contantly backbiting and disobeying the chain of command in public
Again:
what? Surely you don't mean that the high-level meetings in which Krennic and Tarkin were yelling at each other were in any way "public," let alone that these two high-ranking leaders are "way down the command line"?! Leaders who regularly meet with Vader himself, to the point they don't even fear to backtalk him?!
Holdo doesn’t expect respect due to rank. She simply expects Poe to trust her due to her reputation, and to trust the judgement of his fellow Resistance members that appointed her.
So...
rank. In a military, it's
always about rank, unless the superior explicitly says "never mind my rank for the moment," which I don't recall her doing. (But, what do I know, I'm just a four-year US Navy veteran...

)
But you're missing the larger point the RLM review argues, IMO: the ultimate problem with Holdo's plan isn't that she doesn't tell Poe about it, it's that it's a stupid plan that relies on the First Order being unbelievably incompetent. The First Order has a whole fleet at their disposal, and the Resistance ships are passing right by a planet. Given that, even
if the FO ships weren't scanning for escape pods or were fooled by their random-ass sensor cloaks, and even if they somehow didn't scan the main ships and noticed no one was aboard anymore (that scanning ability having been established in the opening scene of
ANH), given that they were on the verge of destroying the last of the fleet ships, why
wouldn't they then check the planet (which just happens to have completely breathable air) to see if they overlooked anyone?
Which ties back into the First Order incompetence the review notes at the beginning, with the dreadnought firing on the immobile, defenseless, potentially intelligence-rich base instead of the fleeing Resistance ships. (Followed immediately with: if the bomber ships were so slow, and Leia didn't intend on using them, why did she have them deploy into position in the first place? If Poe had been killed, the dreadnought's cannon would presumably have cut them to bits, for no gain whatsoever.) The main problem is that Johnson's script, being chock full of plot points that don't
remotely pass the sniff test, insults the intelligence of audience members with the slightest interest in tactics, or credible sci-fi worldbuilding. In other words,
sci-fi fans.
Now, it's undeniably true that
TLJ was a critical smash, with a very impressive 85 Metacritic score. (But then, so was
The Hurt Locker, which was laughable from a credible military standpoint. Oh, so one can just jog from Baghdad's Green Zone to its slums at night, with no ID or problem?!) It therefore stands to reason that most professional critics, and many in the audience, either didn't notice these plot points, or didn't care. What we have, therefore, is a fairly interesting case of a sci-fi/fantasy movie that plays best to those who
aren't fans of the genre.