I think Octavia's post above mirrors on how I would answer this.
I think I've seen you post before about your frustration that there aren't any black/asian relationships in Trek. And that kind of thing is what I'm referring to in my post - when did Trek have to have an example of every possible socially awkward situation in order to be considered progressive?
Novel-based trek has far more female characters in far more powerful positions than the shows ever did. It has several homosexual characters, which the shows never did. It has undertaken the first legitimately comprehensive effort to describe a culture totally distinct from hours as heroic and noble (the IKS Gorkon series), certainly a point in favor of multiculturalism.
I just don't get your complaint. If the books are still catching up to reality, so has Star Trek been since the very very beginning.
Before I fully answer this post, can you explain how a relationship I am in is 'socially awkward'...?
Maybe I'm misunderstanding something here.
You're talking about overcoming societal prejudices, right? Why would it bother you that Trek didn't have an instance of this if it weren't a societal prejudice you were annoyed about?
That's all I meant.