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Here is what we need:
In matters of aggression, we will give them absolute power over us. This power will not be able to be revoked. At the first sign of violence, they will act automatically against the aggressor. The penalty for provoking their action shall be too terrible to risk. The result would be we will live in peace, without arms or armies, secure in the knowledge that we are free from aggression and war. Free to pursue more... profitable enterprises.
Serious response: The REAL nuclear threat presently comes from two different arenas--
1. Emerging nations using nukes against one another (i.e. Pakistan/India). This is NOT a direct threat toward us but does present the risk of widening a local conflict severely. As devastating as it might be, it would be a regional problem for the most part and a limited exchange of weapons. If such an exchange were to occur, it would be self-limiting, either because the nations involved would have only a few usable nukes or outside nations would very quickly need to respond militarily to stabilize the situation so that damage to surrounding people and lands is minimal.
2. The TRUE danger to the US is not from a full-scale, cold-war nuclear assault with ICBMs dropping from the sky. Ain't EVER gonna happen. That risk is passed. We don't NEED a "nuclear missile" shield because that is NOT how anyone with the remotest sense would attack us and no one without sense is going to be able to construct an arsenal of nuclear tipped long-range missiles. Not even North Korea (a place which has NO sense IMHO).
The threat comes from nukes being smuggled across the border and planted in our cities. This might be done by terrorists or agents of rogue nations or God knows who. It i also damn near impossible to guard against. If such a scenario plays out and the source weapon is traced to a nation that can plausible guarantee that the material was STOLEN, even our options at response are very limited. If, however, say there is a terrorist strike and the weapon material can be traced to a known sponsor of terror or a place that might flagrantly violate International Laws on proliferation (as NK might if they get to the stage of being able to manufacture more than a few pseudo-nukes or possibly iran somewhere down the road), we respond against that nation as if we were attacked BY that nation. End of story. No quarter asked, no quarter given.