People that has gone through hell...they all turn to religions. Take it from them... They speak from experience.
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all turn to religions ? That's of course wrong. Everyone with experience know that.
And I can tell you that right now that you are wrong from personal experience.
Did you mean to speak for everyone who has ever suffered or is that just clumsy wording?
Let me tell you a story. When I was 4 I met a boy in Kindergarden. We became fast friends. We were both somewhat awkward and for a time neither of us had very many other friends that you would actually see outside of school. We remained best friends all the way to age 25. Then he got cancer and died, last summer.
How did I deal with this? As an atheist, I wondered if I would turn to spiritual matters in a time like that. But no, when I thought about it, the idea of any religion or any idea of God being true just angered the hell out of me. I instead took solace in the fact that everything was matter in motion, all life was blind selection of randomly varying replicated DNA, that the univers didn't care and that I was lucky to be alive in it after billions of years of blind evolution. There was no plan that had this in mind. There was no God punishing me or my friend.
Even the idea that his conciousness was erased was of no harm to me. He was dead for billions of years before he was born and never suffered the slightest inconvenience. And the idea that his spirit was floating about somewhere was strangely uncomforting to me. Because if that spirit was truly him I don't think he would like it very much, nor would he or anyone relish the idea of eternal existence in any state. And if he was "pure conciousness" as Chopra would say, then it's not him at all but some vague notion of energy that contains some essence of him without the personality, memories, wants, desires, likes, dislikes, goals, hopes, fears.... no. All that is bunk and I was very happy to believe so.
A year on I'm completely healed emotionally, though I wish he were still around, and that healing was not only not helped by religion or spirituality, it was helped by knowing that there is no God, no plan, no soul, and that he and I got to share time in this universe as a massively complex arrangement of atoms that is a gift... a gift made all the more precious by the fact that it's limited.