He's not going to experience hormonal changes from releasing an egg and shedding his uterine lining, it's just totally not going to happen no matter how much time he spends among women.
But none of that is necessary or even relevant for adopting the resulting behavior patterns, which are the only thing that manifests to the outside anyway, in a fashion the audience might notice. If the guy lives alone among gals with synched-up menstrual cycles, he learns to dance the dance, consciously or subconsciously. Unless he somehow adopts an anti-stance, a pronounced "I'm the man around here" attitude that then fixates his personality in some other funny angle.
Culture is contagious. The example above is only slightly special in that the culture itself is on a subconscious level, rather than a conscious construct.
As for how biological pon farr is, we probably can't tell because it's the one thing the Vulcans themselves would be in deep denial about already. We just won't get the facts. Not until we spend more time with Romulans. Or Mintakans.
Timo Saloniemi