Honestly I think its OK for Beverley not to be attracted to women. If my husband transgendered into a woman I probably wouldn't want to be with him. I think thats OK. So maybe you're right and Beverley should have said she was straight
I get the gist that people were thinking that Star Trek was against gay relationships because Beverley rejected her but Odan seemed to be cool with being with a woman and Star Trek did not portray it as odd or disgusting.
Personally I think the Trill are odd and disgusting but thats just me (and not to be admired).
True, it's definitely OK. I think I've been a little hard on Beverly, considering she had to deal 3 different people, and two of them without warning.
What stands out is her reaction to Odan, and maybe not being honest about why she rejected him .She definitely was expecting a male, because when Worf announced the new host had arrived, she said "
send him in". And she was smiling. As soon as she saw the female Odan, the smile dropped, and she appeared somewhat cold, afterwards.
I think Odan could get away with it, because she was an alien that no one would ever see again. The funny thing is the episode didn't cause much controversy, because the scene escaped everyone's notice. Her being disappointed and rejecting the new Odan because she was now female was considered a normal reaction. It's when you re-watch it that you notice.
The style of the show kind of painted Crusher into a weird a little box. They can't have her reject Odan and actually saying 'I only like males' because a 24th century Enterprise crew member could never been seen saying that. And some fans would have seen that as Trek being homophobic.
But they won't show her accepting Odan either because it would probably have upset enough viewers and network execs worried about the ratings.
To be fair to FC, even during both real World Wars someone, somewhere was making money, and still living a fairly decent life, so having Cochran not being a paragon of virtue and being materialistic made the film realistic. (Consider WW2 left the USA an economic superpower, war is good for business for someone). Even if humanity almost wiped themselves out in WW3, according to Riker 600 million died, that is still less than 10 per cent of the population. That leaves more than 90% to keep things going, not exactly a wipeout. (If they ever reboot TNG FC they should change the number to 6 billion dead!)
Also knowing humans it would take more than another World War for humanity to get its shit together. Knowing there are alien, galactic powers out there that would not care less about the isms (race, sex, religion, class, etc) we have with each other and would blow each and every one to kingdom come given a chance, would be more of a wake up call. Humanity would learn to hang together or hang separately, its a good thing in the Star Trek universe the Vulcans were benevolent.
Some people have suggested that all the hoopla about humans evolving to where they were was a myth. The idea you get before FC is that humans were left in a bad situation that they had to learn themselves through logic, compassion hard work, ect, how to get out of, and eventually by the time they made it out to space and met aliens, they solved a lot of their 'isms'.
Now the idea is that the main reason, (if not the only one), is because they accidently met the Vulcans while experimenting with a ship, and the Vulcans took pity on us.