Looks or Personality?

[Zulu Romeo]

You know, I'm seriously tempted to change my accent again and become Northern Irish. Many of my friends at Uni were Northern Irish.

I'm afraid I'll have to let you go.

"Looks" FTW, then! [I knew you would succumb to peer pressure ZR, I just knew it - someone]

 

[Amaris]

Hmm... Scottish accent classes...


J.

I'll pay.

I'll do it!
I'll be back, I've got to go put on this kilt.


J.

 

[Supreme Admiral]

Considering the circumstances, she's fed up with men who's only looking after pretty women with looks only, not personality.

It sounds like your friend is the one who's only going after looks instead of personality.

Roger, you've got it all wrong. My friend don't go after only looks instead of personality. As of that result, she was abused by her ex-boyfriend. That cost her relationship with men in the future, because she's not trusting herself dating with men again. Not that I'm blame on her.

I'm blame on her ex-boyfriend who abused her in the past. Now I was informed that she's not ready to go back into dating men again, I assumed that we might be dating, but for now we're going to be friends until there's strong link between us. We have same taste. We love lord of the rings and Eragon.

That's why I'm raise that serious question about looks and personality.

 

[RJDiogenes]

Personality is most important in a relationship, of course; I have to be compatible with someone or else it's too much like work.

Also, I have this strange desire to be happy....

 

[TheGodBen]

I look for a vagina, some breasts with that would be nice but not essential. Looks and personality don't matter all that much.

I hope that women choose men based solely on their looks because, as you can tell by what I said above, I'm not winning anyone's affections based on personality.

 

[sidious618]

I'm not going to lie, a nice butt goes a long way with me.

 

[The Boy Who Cried Worf]

Well my girlfriend has both so I guess I am lucky. I have neither so there must be a third option to consider on her part.

 

[Michael Chris]

Both are nice, but personality. Most definitely.

 

[Joshua Howard]

I'm going to throw an interesting hypothesis into the mixture. First of all, I understand that there are certain cases which obviously don't apply, such as someone suffering from a medical difficulty or who looks a certain way because of a physical disability.

It seems to me that certain body types tend to correlate with certain psychological attributes. People tend to be attracted to people who look a certain way, and those certain people also tend to be in the same psychological ball park. Some folks find fat people more attractive than thin ones; some like them short, others tall. What surprises me is that it seems like inevitably, no matter how ugly I might think a person is, they always wind up finding a mate somewhere that appreciates them. This fact would seem to substantiate my hypothesis, as I don't think that anyone in their right mind would dive into a relationship with someone that they really and truly felt was repulsive in appearance.

It seems like the supermodel types are usually passionate daredevils with hot tempers; the small, short folks tend to be more intellectual or nerdish... and Lord knows, the more I say, the more stereotypical and possibly offensive I become; but I do think that I have somewhat of a point.

I've pretty much got an algorithm worked out to describe my rate of attraction when it comes to women. Usually I find about 1 in 100 women attractive. A far greater number could be described as sexy, but at a glance, most of them still seem to be lacking. Ultimately it comes down to the fact that being perfect enough for a magazine cover doesn't fit my bill of attraction - or as far as I know - anyon else's. In the end, the personality comes out, and that is what probably seals most relationships.

 

[Robert Maxwell]

I'm not going to lie, a nice butt goes a long way with me.

I wholeheartedly approve of this post.

Okay, so I didn't provide a real answer earlier. I need a combination of looks and personality, but like many here, the kind of looks I am going for aren't what you'd consider conventionally beautiful. I don't like skinny girls, I don't like the supermodel look. I tend to go for girls who are more "cute" than "hot." So far, it has worked out pretty well. They tend to have good personalities and not be really full of themselves, as I have noticed more "traditionally" attractive women can be.

 

[Star Wolf]

I look for a vagina, some breasts with that would be nice but not essential. Looks and personality don't matter all that much.

I hope that women chose men based solely on their looks because, as you can tell by what I said above, I'm not winning anyone's affections based on personality.

Only we don't let women know that. But they should know trhat by just interacting with men once their breast start to grow unless they are shielded by family and culture from men's eyes.

There is always the factor of she's got the look I like to know better in play but on that level many qualify. It is the perceived personality by judging how she acts with others which motivates the second step. Then there is the personality case

As we get to know you the look becomes less and less important as we judge the odds we will be allowed to stick or penis into her different body parts. When men give exclusively in many ways it is buying insurance, we will be faithful now so that in the future when earning potential has peaked she won't go cougar on him.