kevin1gamer
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Alright, so here is my story. Almost everyday now I talk to this girl from Germany online. We have been doing this for a while. At first it was just normal, but now we both really like each other. I am trying to get into the foreign exchange program for my senior year (I'm a junior now). I planned to get in the foreign exchange program before I even met her online. This is actually quite ironic since she just graduated from the high school I'm going to go to when I enter the foreign exchange program, and she lives in the same city I'm going to.
I'm 17 and she is 19. She has on numerous occasions called me cute, sweet, attractive, nice, etc. I have also complimented her several times. We both have so much in common too. We love to talk to each other and I am the one who convinced her to break up with her boyfriend who kept hurting her and didn't even care about her. Please note that I am pretty sure I'm not the rebound guy. I didn't want to do anything because I thought that online dating was a bad idea, but then my best friend started doing it.
In fact, my best friend has shown me that people can indeed fall in love if they never met in person. Also, don't say something like "she is probably a 40 year old man", because she isn't (I have a friend in real life who is in the foreign exchange program and she met her when she was in Germany). She is a beautiful, intelligent young woman, and a wonderful person. Of course, when I meet her in real life once I go through the foreign exchange program, I will meet her in a public place, just to be safe. I am technically an adult under Missouri law, so it's not illegal. We won't be having any sex or anything (atleast not until we both decide that we are old enough). If I wait until I get to Germany my senior year, it might be too late, since she might think I have lost interest in her and find someone else. I'm horribly scared she will reject me, but I hope she won't. I am truly in love with her and want to be with this girl.
So I plan on asking her out, but I don't know how to go about doing so. I can't do it in person, since there is kind of an ocean and lots of land in the way, so should I just send her a message on Facebook? Or should I send her a Facebook Chat IM? What should I say to her when I ask her? I am fully committed to this girl and know the risks and disadvantages of online dating (primarily the fact that you can't physically be with the person most of the time). I will be going to Germany though in less than a year (probably around like August 2010, but possibly on January 3, 2011), and I will stay there for an entire semester. Please don't say anything like "you only have two years to get with her because of 2012", because 2012 is just a hoax and I don't believe in stupid mass hysteria hoaxes. So what should I do and how should I go about it?
I'm 17 and she is 19. She has on numerous occasions called me cute, sweet, attractive, nice, etc. I have also complimented her several times. We both have so much in common too. We love to talk to each other and I am the one who convinced her to break up with her boyfriend who kept hurting her and didn't even care about her. Please note that I am pretty sure I'm not the rebound guy. I didn't want to do anything because I thought that online dating was a bad idea, but then my best friend started doing it.
In fact, my best friend has shown me that people can indeed fall in love if they never met in person. Also, don't say something like "she is probably a 40 year old man", because she isn't (I have a friend in real life who is in the foreign exchange program and she met her when she was in Germany). She is a beautiful, intelligent young woman, and a wonderful person. Of course, when I meet her in real life once I go through the foreign exchange program, I will meet her in a public place, just to be safe. I am technically an adult under Missouri law, so it's not illegal. We won't be having any sex or anything (atleast not until we both decide that we are old enough). If I wait until I get to Germany my senior year, it might be too late, since she might think I have lost interest in her and find someone else. I'm horribly scared she will reject me, but I hope she won't. I am truly in love with her and want to be with this girl.
So I plan on asking her out, but I don't know how to go about doing so. I can't do it in person, since there is kind of an ocean and lots of land in the way, so should I just send her a message on Facebook? Or should I send her a Facebook Chat IM? What should I say to her when I ask her? I am fully committed to this girl and know the risks and disadvantages of online dating (primarily the fact that you can't physically be with the person most of the time). I will be going to Germany though in less than a year (probably around like August 2010, but possibly on January 3, 2011), and I will stay there for an entire semester. Please don't say anything like "you only have two years to get with her because of 2012", because 2012 is just a hoax and I don't believe in stupid mass hysteria hoaxes. So what should I do and how should I go about it?
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