You do what you think is best for your kid, and hope it works out.
And that's what being a parent is.
You do what you think is best for your kid, and hope it works out.
I'm well aware of what female circumcision is. It was quite an issue when I worked in Maternity, since we had a large immigrant population. One of our doctors, in fact, was an expert in the repair of female circumcisions. The large majority of women offered the repair declined it. They didn't want to look different from the other women in their peer group and they felt that circumcised genitalia were "cleaner." It's amazing the lengths that people will go to to rationalize conformity.Female genital mutilation and male circumcision are not comparable in that fashion. From UNICEF:
There's no problem with outlawing religious practices that injure or disfigure children too young to give consent.Further, outlawing a religious practice that has no long term negative effects simply because it isn't necessary is not how things should be done. Male circumcision should be combatted with education to increase awareness to help dispel the myths that surround it, not by forcing millions of American Jewish families to get secret snips for their newborn boys and turning mohels into criminals.
Now that doesn't sound accurate at all.Hey, we end up with multi-page threads over whether or not scraping some cells off a woman's uterine wall is tantamount to murder, too.
I'm well aware of what female circumcision is. It was quite an issue when I worked in Maternity, since we had a large immigrant population. One of our doctors, in fact, was an expert in the repair of female circumcisions. The large majority of women offered the repair declined it. They didn't want to look different from the other women in their peer group and they felt that circumcised genitalia were "cleaner." It's amazing the lengths that people will go to to rationalize conformity.Female genital mutilation and male circumcision are not comparable in that fashion. From UNICEF:
There's no problem with outlawing religious practices that injure or disfigure children too young to give consent.
It doesn't need to be physically equivalent. It's cutting off a piece of a baby's body.Then you should already be aware that comparing female genital mutilation and male circumcision is not an appropriate comparison as they are not physically equivalent.
No, calling the surgical removal of a naturally occurring body part injury and disfigurement is the correct usage of the English language.Male circumcision has no long term effects on a male's sexuality. It has no long term effects on a male's quality of life. If the concern is pain for the infant, local anesthesia can be mandated. But calling circumcision either an injury or a disfigurement is disingenuous... the only real long term effect is cosmetic and I'm not aware of any social disadvantage that would come in to play as a result.
Oddly enough, when it comes to surgery, I'm one of those people who thinks there should be documentation of medical necessity, not just lack of documentation of negative outcomes.If you can show a study or data indicating that there are harmful effects as a result of male circumcision, then I would be more then interested in seeing it... but without proof showing harm, there is not sufficient justification to infringe on the right of people to practice their religion and do what they think is best for their child.
If the concern is pain for the infant, local anesthesia can be mandated.
If the concern is pain for the infant, local anesthesia can be mandated.
Getting a needle poked into your penis doesn't sound very enjoyable either.
^ It is probably not what I would call objective, so I will trust the word of my doctor and parents over a third party, thank you very much.![]()
It doesn't need to be physically equivalent. It's cutting off a piece of a baby's body.Then you should already be aware that comparing female genital mutilation and male circumcision is not an appropriate comparison as they are not physically equivalent.
Circumcision is so wrong on so many levels. One of the many remnants of our barbaric past. I mean what the fuck is wrong with those people? If it didn't belong there it wouldn't be there.
I'm wondering what thinking process went into the creation of this silly tradition. "Hm... what part could we cut off, we definately need to cut something off to show our faith... a finger? Nah, need the finger... an ear? Nah, need to hear well. A piece of the nose? And eye lid? Hey, what about the foreskin, who the hell needs foreskin?"
Considering my son SLEPT thru his, I see no point to this entire thread.
Considering my son SLEPT thru his, I see no point to this entire thread.
So your son's experience, assuming its true (and I'm suspect, but have no reason to disbelieve), invalidates all discussion about a possibly questionable medical practice?
No, calling the surgical removal of a naturally occurring body part injury and disfigurement is the correct usage of the English language.
Oddly enough, when it comes to surgery, I'm one of those people who thinks there should be documentation of medical necessity, not just lack of documentation of negative outcomes.If you can show a study or data indicating that there are harmful effects as a result of male circumcision, then I would be more then interested in seeing it... but without proof showing harm, there is not sufficient justification to infringe on the right of people to practice their religion and do what they think is best for their child.![]()
Roger Wilco said:Getting a needle poked into your penis doesn't sound very enjoyable either.
I would very much like an explanation for this, people - especially if you're American or Jewish.![]()
I'm surprised there's no Muslim bashing in this thread...
Forgetting every other reason out there for a second, that bit they cut off has feeling. I'm glad I can still enjoy it.
Where did the practice come from? I know it was propagated by religion, but someone had to come up with the idea.
Why is the USA the only advanced nation to do it if it's a matter of medical care?
Those were some very well written arguments.No, calling the surgical removal of a naturally occurring body part injury and disfigurement is the correct usage of the English language.
The term "disfigurement" implicitly means harm, even if the harm is only cosmetic. There are no social consequences in western society for male circumcision, so therefore it is no more "disfigurement" then getting ears pierced, a nose job, etc. So therefore, no, it is most definitely not the correct usage of the word by any valid definition I am aware of.
Oddly enough, when it comes to surgery, I'm one of those people who thinks there should be documentation of medical necessity, not just lack of documentation of negative outcomes.![]()
No, that's not what's going on here. You're advocating the banning of a religious practice and so you need a heck of a better reason then cosmetics. If this or any other religious practice does not do any harm then you have no business infringing on the right of people to practice their own religion. You might as well be trying to ban baptisms.
If you could prove harm, it would be a different story, but no study has ever conclusively shown any real, long term harm from male circumcision. And until you can do that...
Roger Wilco said:Getting a needle poked into your penis doesn't sound very enjoyable either.
There is this fancy new invention I heard of recently. It lets people administer a drug by applying it directly to the skin which then diffuses into the body. I believe it is called a "cream".
Most circumcised males are neither American nor Jewish, but Muslim.
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