Last time or how often you've lusted for someone....

[Jetfire]

All the time.

 

[iguana_tonante]

As defined by the OP, the only one I've lusted for in many years has been my fiancee. Before y'all start throwing molasses at me, I submit that the original post specifically points to lingering feelings that are not easily dismissed.

As for checking some pretty ass thinking "that's hot" and forgetting 30 seconds down the road, I'd say lots of whole lotta times a day, but that's not really significant.

Last time I let that happen I ended up doing a scene with the guy.

Awkward as hell, since he's 7 years younger than I am.

I'm not looking for some short term hook up- I'm looking for a committed relationship. And going after someone that younger would just make me look ridiculous.

Really, you should not be worried by that: my sweetie is 6 years older than me, I've got the hots for her since I was 19 and we have been in a committed relationship for the last 12 years. So follow your lust, and good luck!

Is there no one else that lusts on a daily basis? Am I using the wrong definition? I'm basically just thinking "intense physical/sexual desire."

The OP defined it somewhat differently.

 

[RJDiogenes]

Is there no one else that lusts on a daily basis? Am I using the wrong definition? I'm basically just thinking "intense physical/sexual desire."

Yes, indeed. Lust-- or sexuality-- is strongly tied to my creative energies, so for me it's a constant thing.

As for specific people, there's my old girlfriend that I still feel desire for; that's not going to go away.

There's a young woman on my team at work who is amazingly attractive, but more than 25 years younger than I am; I wouldn't think of doing anything even if she wasn't living with somebody. It would be nice to have her pose for me, though....

There were a couple of women on my staff at my old job that there was definitely some lust for. And one of our residents, too, but that was purely physical, since I barely knew her.

 

[Goji]

The last time I was seriously lusting after someone was in early 2007. It ended badly, as it always did, but soon after that my current girlfriend and I became involved. She is beautiful and I love her, but I don't characterize the feelings I have toward her as lust. I don't know why, the word just doesn't feel right, given that I can sense a definite distinction between the way I regard her and the way that I regarded the girls I sought before her.

 

[Warped9]

I've had two one-night-stands in my life when I was in my mid 20s, and candidly they were a mixed experience. Afterwards I found myself thinking, "What, that's all there is? Big deal!"

I have to say that I also felt somewhat bad after that because I felt I had somehow just used those women in some way. Granted they had used me as well, but that didn't really make me feel better about how I had behaved.

Being older now I think I'd go into something like this with more open eyes. I'd still prefer an emotional connection along with the physical intimacy, but I'm not sure I'd rule out a more simple mutual sexual attraction for a time if it came my way.

 

[freak]

Well, I sort of "lusted" after this guy in college. But sadly he had a girlfriend. I kept thinking to myself: why are you lusting after someone who already has someone else? Go after something obtainable!
There was this other guy at college who was a good friend...I sort of lusted after for a bit. Mom even liked him. She thought he was hotter than a firecracker and asked if he was my boyfriend! I was like: NO MOM! He's a good friend. Mom was giving me the green light to go after him I guess. !!!!!!!!
And of course, I lust after certain actors from certain TV shows. That's bad though.

 

[Warped9]

^^ There are celebrities that I've found very attractive in some way or other, but I can't recall ever lusting for any of them. I suppose it's rather like a dog or cat who doesn't pay much attention to reflections in the mirror or images of people and other animals on the TV screen because they lack a scent and therefore aren't real to them. No matter how appealing I find a celebrity she's little little different than seeing an photo in a magazine or newspaper.

 

[Tim]

Apart from wanting to make passionate intellectual love to Lady Gaga's creative cerebrum, not much happenin', which suits me just fine.

 

[Emher]

The last time I was seriously lusting after someone was in early 2007. It ended badly, as it always did, but soon after that my current girlfriend and I became involved. She is beautiful and I love her, but I don't characterize the feelings I have toward her as lust. I don't know why, the word just doesn't feel right, given that I can sense a definite distinction between the way I regard her and the way that I regarded the girls I sought before her.

I'd say you're feeling a different kind of lust, one that has very deep emotions in it.

Me I had crushes on lots of girls, but it wasn't until last year of HS that I actually fell in love with a girl. To me at least there is a definite distinction.