Thing is: In The Cage pilot we never saw Christopher Pike's 'normal' command style.
Pike was still recovering both physically and mentally from an incident just a week earlier where on a landing party, he was still questioning his Command Decisions due to the fact that members of the Landing party were either killed outright, or badly injured.
It affected him so much he was considering resigning his Commission. At the end of the episode he seems to have a better handle on everything, and at that point, is more like his old self.
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But we the audience never got to see that part of him because this was the only Star Trek episode to feature him in an active role until Star Trek Discovery Season 2.
Points well taken.
In retrospect, though, this makes The Cage a bizarre choice for a pilot script.