It seems perfectly normal to them but then again 'Screwed up' is in the eye of the beholder.
That said a quick jaunt through the browser history of most folks would remove their right to assign the label 'screwed up'...
I don't actually think Trill culture in general is screwed up, one that is, probably wouldn't be allowed into the Federation, since they don't allow worlds that violate the individual rights of it's citizens, I was just trying to come up with a provocative title for the sake of stimulating debate.....It seems my evil plan has finally come to fruition, muahahaha!
I think the punishment is a little excessive given the rarity of symbionts (not enough to satisfy the demand) one would think they would be a little less trigger happy about eliminating them. Surely there must be punishments less drastic than that for that infraction. Besides Ezri didn't seem too concerned about that when she slept with Worf. Not very consistent if you ask me.This thread is somewhat inspired by Joel Kirk's last thread, which got me remembering some questions I've always had about the trill attitudes when it comes to various matter regarding the relationship between host and symbiont.
1. Do you think the punishment for a joined Trill that pursues a relationship with a partner from their past lives, where said Trill is exiled in order to prevent the symbiont from joining again, and as a consequence dying with the host, is a little harsh? Perhaps you do agree otherwise joined Trills can turn into a upper caste an aristocratic guild of sorts?
The Dax symbiont was prone to being impulsive ever since having Curzon as a host, it was Jadzia that was willing to make the sacrifice and pick up where Dax left off with Lenara Kahn. So it's not to surprising you'd think Worf would have more discipline then that though. Also maybe they don't 'crack down' on you as hard if you sleep with a previous partner that was none Trill, after all Worf can't be joined and he's only going to live a relatively short period of time in comparison to Dax.
I was blown with how harsh the punishment seemed, it was almost archaic for a Federation planet, this is why I'm guessing that maybe in the distant pass the groups of Trills that monopolized the symbionts became an elite caste, since a host would not detach from their previous life, find the same partner they had before they have children with them if they're of the opposite sex or adopt children, since they have hundreds of years of experience in a skill set or craft or multiple ones, they'd have an advantage in climbing the social economic latter, then they would want their children to be joined with a symbiont and their children would have had a privileged upbringing helping them to out compete.
What I find a bit inconsistent with the Trill is how the Host-Symbiont relationship is handled.
In some Episodes it seems like the symbiont is just a sort of "memory jar" and Jadzia herself and Sisko (possibly others as well) make a clear difference in dialogue between Jadzia and Dax.
In other episodes its handled akin to a fusion of the two beings with Sisko calling Jadzia "old man" and dialogue from Jadzia indicating that she is Jadzia and Curzon at the same time.
It would be really interesting to get an explanation how the symbiosis between the Trill and the symbionts evolved and developed.
I know what you mean, I would love to know if the symbiont can be considered self aware beings in their own right.
Very nice input folks thank you! Now I have another question...
What do you think about an emergency case where you have a symbiont and only one Trill available (like the case with Ezri) and the Trill refuses to be joined for fear of loosing their identity, are they being a selfish and cruel jerk letting so many memories die, maybe a self aware being, or is this well within their right?