I don't know. Do you hate heterosexuals you know who are just as in-your-face about their sexual orientation?
I do in fact. Although I don't know many who are like that. Maybe it's because being hetero is considered "normal", so there aren't many who feel the need to make such a fuzz about it, I don't know. The gay people I know are pretty aggressive about it, and happen to fulfil kinda every stereotype you can think of.