Is it homosexual to date a trans woman?

[Kommander]

So does that mean that "Straight" corresponds with "Good" and "Gay" corresponds with "Evil"?

No, that wasn't the intent; he was making a point about the shades of gray inherent in sexuality.

I figured this would come up. Yes, I did replace "good" with "straight" and "evil" with "gay." I did it this way because being straight is considered to be the standard in society, while being gay is an alternative. The same way good is the standard and evil is a variant. Doing it the other way would be dishonest. I was not making any value judgments on any sexual identity.

 

[Mr. Laser Beam]

^ "Normal is what everyone else is, and you are not." - Tolian Soran

 

[BolianAuthor]

What if you fall in love with a eunuch?

 

[RoJoHen]

What if you fall in love with a eunuch?

Then you better not be planning to procreate any time soon.

 

[Maestro]

As long as she has nice tits, it's all good. That is, until the folks want to know why they're not getting grandkids. Then, you're screwed no matter what.

 

[Amaris]

As long as she has nice tits, it's all good. That is, until the folks want to know why they're not getting grandkids. Then, you're screwed no matter what.

Nah, that's easy. "She can't have grand kids."

 

[Sephiroth]

you could tell them that she's infertile

 

[Amaris]

you could tell them that she's infertile

Yeah, that's what I was wanting to say, too, but couldn't remember the word for some reason.

 

[Kestra]

No one should have to explain a personal choice such as having or not having children.

 

[Amaris]

No one should have to explain a personal choice such as having or not having children.

I agree completely, but parents can be ridiculously pushy, so it can come up.

 

[Zulu Romeo]

So does that mean that "Straight" corresponds with "Good" and "Gay" corresponds with "Evil"?

No, that wasn't the intent; he was making a point about the shades of gray inherent in sexuality.

I figured this would come up. Yes, I did replace "good" with "straight" and "evil" with "gay." I did it this way because being straight is considered to be the standard in society, while being gay is an alternative. The same way good is the standard and evil is a variant. Doing it the other way would be dishonest. I was not making any value judgments on any sexual identity.

I always considered "True Neutral" as the standard and "Good / Evil" and "Law / Chaos" as the pairs of equal and opposite alternatives along the moral and ethical axes.

I guess it depends on your own standpoint. In a "Lawful Good" mindset for example, everything that isn't Lawful Good is seen as either more chaotic or more evil, or both.

In any case, despite the likelihood of misinterpretation of your graph (and as a suggestion for refinement, "law" could represent "chastity" and "chaos" could represent "promiscuity") it's still a fascinating expression of the situation. Artistic, even.

 

[Myasishchev]

I feel like this is both too complicated and too unnecessary a question to warrant a label.

Are you attracted to a woman because she's a woman?
Are you attracted to a woman because she used to have a penis?
Are you attracted to a man because you're into genital mutilation?
Are you attracted to a person because you like who they are, regardless of gender?
Were you attracted to this person before the sex change? Did you know about the sex change? If you were attracted to someone considering a sex change, would you still be attracted to them if they went through with it?

And, crucially, would you rob a bank to pay for it?

I suppose I like t-girls all right and I'm straight, so I reckon it's straight. (Obligatory comment about how it doesn't matter, yada yada.)

If all you want is sex, you can get that anywhere, anytime...

Sorry, but I just wanted to call BS on this. And not just technically, either (Mars, 1,000,000 BC).

 

[SmoothieX]

I'm just not into vaginas that are actually an inverted penis.

 

[thestrangequark]

If all you want is sex, you can get that anywhere, anytime...

Sorry, but I just wanted to call BS on this. And not just technically, either (Mars, 1,000,000 BC).

Well, technically there doesn't need to be another person present.

 

[JarodRussell]

If all you want is sex, you can get that anywhere, anytime...

With the risk of getting too personal... but aren't you the one who currently struggles with dating women?

 

[The Great Meech]

I'm just not into vaginas that are actually an inverted penis.

If I'm remembering my fetal development properly, all vaginas are, to a degree, inverted penises (or, alternatively, all penises are overdeveloped clitorises. Clitorii?)

 

[6079SmithW]

All humans begin as female. Testes are distended ovaries and penises are enlarged clitorises.

 

[SmoothieX]

You wouldn't wanna be with a girl with an oversized clit?

No, 'cause the next step is a guy with an undersized dick.

 

[Jonas Grumby]

"Is it homosexual to date a trans woman?"

Is this just for classification purposes? I guess that would depend upon whether you're attracted to her feminine or to her masculine qualities, eh?

It is a situation with a lot of gray area, isn't it? For instance, if a straight guy is attracted to a transgendered woman, is he still straight?

Personally, if my visceral impression of the lady is female (taking into account appearance and personality) then I don't really care what she used to be.

Actually, I can even imagine one could be so convincingly and enticingly feminine that her even still having a winky wouldn't necessarily be a deal-breaker. (Although, to be honest, I would prefer that it at least be smaller than mine. )

 

[Myasishchev]

If all you want is sex, you can get that anywhere, anytime...

Sorry, but I just wanted to call BS on this. And not just technically, either (Mars, 1,000,000 BC).

Well, technically there doesn't need to be another person present.

Well, I wouldn't recommend having that kind of sex anywhere or anytime, then...