misskim86 said:
wow sorry if I hit a nerve, but if you had read my post better you would have seen that I wrote that if you write fanfic for your own sake all power to you.
No, actually you said:
misskim86 said:
If you only do it for your own sake, all power to you but don't expect any credit. Better to try write a real book which I'm gonna try .
misskim86, I did
read your post better. Anyone who has studied linguistics knows that using the word
but is a way to cause the subconscious mind to delete the previous statement. So when you said "all power to you but..." you changed the implied intent of your sentence to "If you only do it for your own sake, don't expect any credit."
It's just like when your boyfriend is trying to be polite about your new hairstyle. If he says "I like it, but..." What do you focus on, the "I like it" part, or the "but?"
Also, just another perception. If you really want to write that book, and get it done, you must stop trying and just do it. Try is another one of those funny words. It actually connotates failure, and your subconscious picks up on that as well.
When you want to make plans to do something with a friend and they say "I'll
try to be there," how confident are you that they will show up? Probably not very (or you shouldn't be)
Try comes with a presupoosition that what is being tried probably won't be sucessful. Just for fun, say "I'm writing a book, and people are going to love it," while thinking of your book. How does it feel compared to saying, "I'm trying to write a book, and I hope people like it."
That's why Picard said "Make it so," instead of "Number One, try to go to warp 5."
Play with it, have fun!
I'll show you what I mean.
I'm not trying to be critical of what you said, but when you post that you are trying to write a real book, as opposed to I can only assume a
fake fan fic story, it does seem like a bit of an insult to all those on here taking their time to write
fake stories. This is just my opinion, but It seems like your little message was full of hidden (or not so hidden) meaning aimed at just such a
striking a nerve.
How does it read? Does it seem that there is more than one layer of meaning? It's sort of like your
more power to you statement isn't it? I can fall back and say it's a supportive statement, but it's really not, is it?
Anyway, people do pick up on subtle meanings here.