Yesterday, I celebrated my 40th birthday.
I really thought I was going to be scared and have some kind of meltdown or, kind of, realization. But it never happened. I found myself far more terrified when I turned 30. That felt like a much bigger deal.
Even during the days leading up to it, two things happened that really made me glad to be at this point in my life.
In my professional life (I work as a video editor) I've got about fifteen years of professional experience behind me and have been using everything I learned to make significant contributions at work. My opinions, experience, and skills are truly valued. When I was in my 20s, I couldn't wait to reach this part of my professional life.
Also, while I don't have anyone at my job report to me, I was working with someone (in their 20s) and they were helping me on a few video projects. They needed some guidance from me on how to proceed with what needed to get done. Very quickly, I remembered being that age at my first job and when I had to deal with higher ups who weren't very transparent with me on almost everything. With that in mind, I took the time to be as transparent and supportive as I could -- and it worked well.
Needless to say, I'm looking forward to this new decade.
I took this the morning of my birthday.
I really thought I was going to be scared and have some kind of meltdown or, kind of, realization. But it never happened. I found myself far more terrified when I turned 30. That felt like a much bigger deal.
Even during the days leading up to it, two things happened that really made me glad to be at this point in my life.
In my professional life (I work as a video editor) I've got about fifteen years of professional experience behind me and have been using everything I learned to make significant contributions at work. My opinions, experience, and skills are truly valued. When I was in my 20s, I couldn't wait to reach this part of my professional life.
Also, while I don't have anyone at my job report to me, I was working with someone (in their 20s) and they were helping me on a few video projects. They needed some guidance from me on how to proceed with what needed to get done. Very quickly, I remembered being that age at my first job and when I had to deal with higher ups who weren't very transparent with me on almost everything. With that in mind, I took the time to be as transparent and supportive as I could -- and it worked well.
Needless to say, I'm looking forward to this new decade.


I took this the morning of my birthday.

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