I disliked Trip because he was unprofessional and used his friendship with the Captain to obtain perks over and above other crewmembers.
Please cite specifics of unprofessional behavior and the many perks Trip enjoyed because of his friendship with the Archer.
Please cite the numerous occasions.
Malcolm had the gall to criticize Archer for dining with subordinates. Yes, Archer gave him permission to speak freely, but who the hell was Malcolm to be telling him he shouldn't get acquainted with the crew?
I suppose it irritated me a bit that Trip would criticise Malcom when in fact Malcom was acting correctly and Trip was abusing his position.
Malcolm was behaving correctly when he balked at Archer's order to work out a combat training schedule for the crew for no other reason than that it was Major Hayes' idea?
Malcolm was behaving correctly when he got into a fist fight with Hayes?
Malcolm was behaving correctly when he kept Archer in the dark when they were flying at warp speed into a dangerous situation in "Affliction"?
Trip was second highest ranking officer on the ship. I don't recall him ever mistreating anyone. He and Archer had been friends for many years. Did you expect the relationship to disappear because Archer was captain?
I apologise if I can't be too specific as I have only watched the series once on its first run many years ago. I recall one instance where Trip was invited on a planetary survey by Archer as sort of shore leave - Archer asked him admittedly but it was unprofessional of him to ask the chief engineer down on a survey mission as a bit of a lark. I do think that a good commanding officer puts friendship to the back of their minds when making command decisions (remember Troi's silly commander test?). Of course friendship and loyalty are important themes in Star Trek and there will be occasions when crew break the rules for friendship but dishing out perks to your mates doesn't look good in my view.
Desert Crossing. Trip had repaired an alien's spaceship and was specifically invited by the grateful alien to join Archer for a visit to his homeworld.
I think what Malcom was quite rightly implying was not that it was wrong to dine with crew but that Archer's command style was quite lax and dining with the crew seemed to make that worse in his particular case. And I think that in spite of being told to speak freely, Malcom pulled his punch significantly out of respect. I think Archer is the weakest of all the Trek captains that we've seen and he lacked the 'frontier spirit' that I was hoping to see.
What do your grievances about Archer have to do with your dislike of Trip?
I recall the Great and Powerful Picard having meals with Beverly Crusher. Her son got a considerable measure of favoritism. Nobody else's kids were allowed to routinely hang out on the bridge (With a thousand people on the ship, I suspect at least one or two other children would have benefited from the Very Special Attention Wesley got (and yes, I remember the Traveller urged Picard to give him every advantage, but so what? Maybe if the Traveller had spent five minutes with other exceptionally intelligent children on board they could have had a whole class of kids getting the advantage Picard granted Wesley (and what an amazing coincidence that Wesley was the son of longtime friends).
I recall Janeway having meals with Chakotay (like Trip, her second in command). And I also recall she once even stopped by when several members of the crew were in a holodeck bar and she joined in a game of pool. She was a longtime friend with Tuvok, was she supposed to dump him because one of her officers' nose was out of joint?
I take it I don't need to mention how much latitude Kirk routinely gave Spock and McCoy when it came to ship's discipline. In fact, he was also pretty tolerant of mistakes made by members of the lower ranks.
I recall several occasions where Trip was rude and sometimes even abusive to alien ambassadors and representatives. I don't recall him ever being disciplined formally for his behaviour. He should never have been anywhere near those kinds of diplomatic contacts and I think it was his friendship with Archer that cut him so much slack. McCoy was abrasive and had a consensual double-act going with Spock but I think he knew very well when to speak and when to shut up when dealing with foreign dignitories.
I seem to recall Kirk letting McCoy get away with quite a bit, including insubordination.
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