Those who have will always justify their desire for more. Where I grew up we called it "Keeping up with the Joneses": Jones bought a new care, therefore I now feel the desire to buy a new car, etc.
My own brother suffered from it his entire working life. Now that he is older, that desire has changed to "I don't need that, I only want it". He still makes good money, but he realized Keeping up with the Joneses was also keeping him from happiness.
While we both grew up very poor in farm country [often we weren't able to eat... then a neighbor or church member would show up unannounced with a bag of groceries]. I tend to remember those roots and help others in need from what I have. I went from very successful to taking care of Mom, eventually spending my retirement to do it.
Now I am disabled, with a much lower income, yet very happy. I have a House by the Lake. My car is beautiful, even though it is 5 years old... my truck is 15 years old. Because I set limits upon what it takes to make me happy a long time ago, I am content.
I raised children, have grandchildren, help neighbors and those in need... and gain happiness from it, instead of stressing over getting more than I already have, because Jones has more.
I am very rich.![]()
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