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How many people have you "been with" ?

How many?

  • 0

    Votes: 40 21.1%
  • 1

    Votes: 39 20.5%
  • 2-3

    Votes: 28 14.7%
  • 4-5

    Votes: 13 6.8%
  • 6-7

    Votes: 21 11.1%
  • 8-9

    Votes: 8 4.2%
  • 10-11

    Votes: 4 2.1%
  • 11+

    Votes: 37 19.5%

  • Total voters
    190
  • Poll closed .
Nope, not enough said. Not all of us who were single in the 70's fit the stereotype.


I was uber-stereotype. In a rock band. I lived the sex, drugs and rock-n-roll stereotype. And it was awesome.
Ah, the 60s and 70s. Great decades. We need more like them. :mallory:


Talk to Charlie Sheen.

I'm 35 and i had my share. I really had to think a bit over the last 20 years or so since i've been active (and no.. didn't lose my virginity at 15.. i'm counting kissing and petting too as the first steps). I actually had to count using fingers and thought back.. all the one night stands, relationships and affairs and i never thought i'd get up to this number (and no i won't tell :p).

I'm not a ladies man but many of these women i got with by being just me.. on a good day funny and charming and sometimes that's all you need.

If I count petting my number goes from 5-7 to about 25. :lol:
 
Anonymous poll... how many people have you slept with? Are you comfortable with it? Sometimes the question comes up in a new relationship, and it can be an awkward thing. Have you ever had to break into this topic with somebody and felt weird about it?

Slept with = 0
Been with < 5
 
Since I lost my virginity when I was just shy of twenty, which was nearly seven and a half years ago, I've had sex with, enough, it's certainly more than a couple of dozen though! I'm not exactly proud of the number, but not completely ashamed of it either, just content.
 
I know we're Trekkies and that, but 0 is scoring alarmingly high.

Although it does make me look like a Cassanova by comparison.
 
I know we're Trekkies and that, but 0 is scoring alarmingly high.

So should all Trekkies aim to put it about like Captain Kirk, or are they satisfied to use him as their proxy? From an evolutionary viewpoint, I guess Trek is screwed even if Trekkies aren't.
 
Discarding encounters that didn't end in full intercourse then it's 6 for me. 2 in long term relationships, the others with friends (it can work!). Counting all sexual encounters including oral and stinky pinky then I have lost count. I spent more time in my youth with my hands down ladies pants than I care to remember. I was never one for going out to bars and picking women up though, I just seem incapable of doing it. I remember the crippling frustration of being a virgin and the utter elation/disappointment of losing it. The idea and buildup to sex always seems better than the act itself.
 
Only 5 to date. Was married initially to women #1. Now currently happily married to woman #5. Was always a relationship type person, no one night stands here. So when marriage #1 ended, women #2 through #4 were part of relationships that lasted several months each.
 
I know we're Trekkies and that, but 0 is scoring alarmingly high.

Although it does make me look like a Cassanova by comparison.

Eh, I think people make way too big a deal out of virginity. I don't find it alarming at all.
 
^ Agreed.

Several of my closest friends are in their 30s and virgins. I don't judge them any more than they judge me.
 
More than I can count on my fingers, but I'm pretty sure I'll max out before I use all my toes, there are one or two there I'm not entirely clear on what happened.

A handful from relationships, a couple handfuls from short-term dating or FWB situations and the last few from lonely nights and the right connection.
 
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