No one has to accept a goddamned thing if they don't want to. They're free to ignore any crap they wish. Particularly crap of the purist kind.
If the nuTrek writers choose to ignore TOS continuity (which they have) then fans are free to ignore whatever the nuTrek zombies crank out.
Ignoring something doesn't change the reality of the situation. No one is saying you must like or accept what they do. (at least I'm not) but the reality is they've been hired to make Star Trek. And it looks like theirs will be the prevailing vision for the time being. TOS still exists, this movie will not change that. You can read and watch that version of Trek anytime you want. ( I know I do)
No one forced you to watch this movies. Its was your choice. You knew you wouldn't like and went ahead and watched it any.
MOAR NUTREK PLEEZE
I don't mind your disagrement, its just the disagreeable way you express it. You're not content with disliking the movie, you have to dislike and disparage the people who enjoyed it. And thats the sad part.