. . . We've lived in HOA neighborhood most of my life, and we've been lucky enough to avoid major issues.
The one rules that really bug me is they won't allow permanent basketball hoops, which is just ridiculous. Oh, and when we first moved into our current neighborhood, you weren't allowed to park work vehicles in driveway or the street. That one really bugged me, because for a lot of people that's their only vehicle, and it's stupid to not let them park it in front of their house. They did eventually let you park them, if you cover up the logo, which to me looks even worse then the logo would.