Have You Ever Cheated?

[FPAlpha]

Not me on my girl but i was the male part in a cheating scenario.

However i got together with the girl but it didn't last long because i finally started to think with my brain again instead of my penis and realized what a dumb, uncaring whore she was and i'm pretty sure she cheated on me when i was not around (long distance relationship) in the few months we were officially together.

Funny thing is that i became good friends with the guy she cheated on.. we've known each other before and liked each other which makes my mistake only so much worse.

 

[SeerSGB]

Cheated on, never cheated. That's the one "unforgivable sin" that me and my wife talked about before we got married: We can work through must anything else, but we've both been hurt bad in the past by cheaters and if one of us cheats, that's it no second chancees.

 

[Emher]

I've never cheated and never will, especially since I found out after my last relationship that I was cheated on for quite a while. It is not a nice feeling.

Though I kinda see your point. Gotta ask though, longdistance relationship for nine years? What are the circumstances that keep you from moving closer to each other?

 

[Lindley]

I don't think I'd be psychologically capable of it.

I'm even having trouble starting a relationship right now because I know I've been more attracted to other girls in the past than the one in question.

 

[Amaris]

You've had girlfriends?

Yeah. Why wouldn't I?


J.

He's just upset because he wants your balls.

Ah, I see. Well, I can understand that.


J.

 

[An Officer]

" Why go out for a hamburger, when you can have prime rib at home?" Paul Newman.

I wouldn't want to betray and hurt a loved one like that. Makes me sick to think of it.

 

[sidious618]

I cheated on a test once.

 

[TheGodBen]

I feel ashamed for even thinking about being with other women while with past girlfriends, the physical act of being unfaithful is probably beyond me. However, overconfidence breeds contempt so I'll never say that it would be impossible for me to do it, just that it's highly improbable.

Luckily I'm fairly daft looking so the situation will probably never present itself.

 

[Kail]

No, and I never would. Even if the most beautiful woman offered herself to me with no stings attached. I just love my family to much, and I don't need anything more than that.

Edit to add that although I would never touch, I got married not buried, got wed, not dead. I can't help but look.

 

[An Officer]

I cheated on a test once.

The Kobayashi Maru?

 

[sidious618]

I cheated on a test once.

The Kobayashi Maru?

No. A tech test back in 8th grade.

 

[An Officer]

Just doesn't have the same ring to it.

 

[sidious618]

Just doesn't have the same ring to it.

There needs to be a sexual element to it, I know.

 

[TheLonelySquire]

I am one of the most faithful men in the world. My girlfriend and I had a long distance relationship for nine years. There were times when we would only see each other once or twice a year. And yet in all that time I never cheated once, never even went to a strip club. And this despite the fact that I lived down the street from the most famous strip club in America and literally lived next to a house of prostitution. I guess I am just not the kind of guy who cheats.

But there is something that bothers me. I actually would like to cheat. My girlfriend is the only girl I have ever been with because of my life long social anxiety. There is a big part of me that feels I missed out on something and at times I really would like to know what it is like being with someone else. Problem is I really love being with my girlfriend and don't like not being with her. So in my plans this is it for the rest of my life. Unless she goes before me(highly unlikely) I either have to accept this or change my moral code.

I am curious if anyone here has ever consciously cheated on someone they were dating or married to. I know this is a sensitive question and I don't want to get anyone in trouble, but I am curious what was the reason that led you to the decision and how you felt afterwards.

You lived down the street from SCORES?

 

[Vulcan Princess]

I've never cheated, but I've been cheated on. If you love your girlfriend, don't cheat. It's devastating. It destroys trust, and you'll hurt her unbelievably.

 

[The Boy Who Cried Worf]

I am one of the most faithful men in the world. My girlfriend and I had a long distance relationship for nine years. There were times when we would only see each other once or twice a year. And yet in all that time I never cheated once, never even went to a strip club. And this despite the fact that I lived down the street from the most famous strip club in America and literally lived next to a house of prostitution. I guess I am just not the kind of guy who cheats.

But there is something that bothers me. I actually would like to cheat. My girlfriend is the only girl I have ever been with because of my life long social anxiety. There is a big part of me that feels I missed out on something and at times I really would like to know what it is like being with someone else.

What about your strip club blowjob?

That was summer of 1997. Met my girlfriend in summer of 1999. She knows about too so now dishonesty there.

 

[The Boy Who Cried Worf]

I am one of the most faithful men in the world. My girlfriend and I had a long distance relationship for nine years. There were times when we would only see each other once or twice a year. And yet in all that time I never cheated once, never even went to a strip club. And this despite the fact that I lived down the street from the most famous strip club in America and literally lived next to a house of prostitution. I guess I am just not the kind of guy who cheats.

But there is something that bothers me. I actually would like to cheat. My girlfriend is the only girl I have ever been with because of my life long social anxiety. There is a big part of me that feels I missed out on something and at times I really would like to know what it is like being with someone else. Problem is I really love being with my girlfriend and don't like not being with her. So in my plans this is it for the rest of my life. Unless she goes before me(highly unlikely) I either have to accept this or change my moral code.

I am curious if anyone here has ever consciously cheated on someone they were dating or married to. I know this is a sensitive question and I don't want to get anyone in trouble, but I am curious what was the reason that led you to the decision and how you felt afterwards.

You lived down the street from SCORES?

No, I'm from California so the rest of the country doesn't exist for us. So when I say the most famous strip club in America I mean the most famous strip club in California. And I still think ours is more famous anyway.

 

[Captain Ice]

^It's not more famous than the Palomino Club, so...

 

[The Boy Who Cried Worf]

I've never cheated and never will, especially since I found out after my last relationship that I was cheated on for quite a while. It is not a nice feeling.

Though I kinda see your point. Gotta ask though, longdistance relationship for nine years? What are the circumstances that keep you from moving closer to each other?

Nothing too specific. It took a long time for us to get past a lot of the baggage we both had. I was new to relationships so it took me a long time to realize how much I wanted to be with her. When one of was up financially the other would be down. She came to school in my city for awhile to get her teaching credential so we were together about a year. We're just kind of people who like to take it slow. This may sound strange to some people but we both value our alone time. Right now we are happier just still seeing each other but not necessarily being together when the day begins or ends.

 

[Freakness]

no, never.