I see what you're saying. Then again, I suppose you could ask why McKay is the only one who gets treated this way. Could it be that he's NOT the one we're supposed to relate to the most? I mean, Carter was every bit the genius McKay is,
Well, no she isn't, but that's a different discussion. A better comparison could be made to Jennifer Hailey.
yet no one treated her like crap.
Because, as smart as she is, she can also fly helicopters, she's the best shot in the team and she's the sort of person you want to have your back in a fight. She's an action hero who happens to be smart.
Ditto Daniel, who got some ribbing from Jack every now and then, but you know what? Shepard is really the only one who gives McKay any shit. And as we've seen, he thinks of McKay as a good friend. So I don't see what the problem is.
See "The Shrine". Sheppard only treats McKay properly when he's become as dumb as he is. In the meantime, he's waving citrus fruit around.
So what if Ronon is being an ass? Isn't that part of the whole point of his character? Weir, Teyla, Ford, Beckett, they all put up with Rodney's ego.
Beckett was the only one who treated him like a human being. Teyla and Ford were hardly in a position to judge McKay, either.
As for Weir, remember "The Tao of Rodney" ? He spent a considerable amount of what might have been his last living hours writing hundreds of pages defending her against all the crap people like Kavanagh had been saying about her - on top of all the other nice things he did for everyone else. You'd think that would earn him some slack.
You want to complain on behalf of someone who gets treated unfairly, lets start talking about how your homeboy McKay treats Zelenka. Even Carter was talking shit about him behind his back, which if you ask me, is rather rude and highly unprofessional for a person who was in her position at the time.
McKay apologised to Zelenka for the way he talks to him. Carter didn't.
Think about it. How many times did Trip and Archer pick on TPol?
If I had been around while Enterprise was on the air I would have had some things to say about that. Archer and T'Pol's behaviour was effectively racism, but that's exactly what Braga and Berman wanted when they recreated the Kirk/Spock/McCoy axis.
How many times did Riker toy around with Worf? Odo with Quark? Jack and Daniel? Vala and Daniel?
In all of these examples it was a two-way street. Quark beat Odo sometimes. Worf and Riker were like brothers (see "Ethics" for proof of that). Daniel was usually right. As for Vala and Daniel, that guy needs a punch in the face after the way he behaved in "Unending".
Carter and McKay? A certain level of antagonism exists in every relationship, and sometimes it is more obvious than in others.
It only works as friendship if it's a two-way thing. If McKay picked on Ronon for being effectively a short Wookiee or Teyla for being a violent, ill-educated psychopath who needs to dress more appropriately for the workplace it might work a bit better.