My real question is what to do next week because I have two shows on at the same time:
This is a problem people still have?

Even before DVRs we had ways around this problem.

Anyway, it's sort of surprising to me -though probably not so completely- that so many are so ready to jump ship so early on. It's only been two episodes one of those being a world-building/exposition heavy pilot.
Strikes me as maybe a bit soon a prejudgmental to jump so quickly, what do you people TV Network executives who want immediate satisfaction, or something?

There's enough here to keep me interested and watching until something really happens that makes me bored with the show or realize it's not going to do anything. Two episodes is way to damn soon. The show has faults, sure, but it may still have some growing pains and world-building to finish shaking off.
I don't like the characterization of Alfred much either but, I suspect, we'll see him mellow a bit as the series continues on (maybe even just the season) it's presently only been a couple of weeks since this relationshipless, childless, butler saw the death of his bosses and then became a father to their suffering child. So I'm hoping we'll see an Alfred we'll recognize more as time wears on.
I agree the show has some tonal issues, we have Bullock playing the Nth degree of a grizzled, noir, detective, Gordon pretty much playing straight as if he were in a regular cop show, a precocious preteen from a Spielberg movie, a scenery-chewing villainess, a playing it straight in a mobster show villain, another villain going maybe a bit over-the-top but clearly enjoying every moment of it and this week we get two Villains-of-the-Week from an episode of Smallville.
So, yeah, this episode (and show) is all over the map on the tone it wants to go for and the various elements aren't working together well. I mean, it's hard to really "get" a crime-scene scene when we've got Gordon there playing it straight cop-show, and Bullock over gesturing and scenery-chewing about coffee and worthless homeless people.
So I get it, but it's not turned me off yet and I have hope the growing pains of the series will smooth out and congeal together to something a bit more coherent. When making the show it probably took the directors, producers, actors and writers to all find their groove. (Example: Watch pretty much the first handful of episodes of any TV series and compare it to how things are at the end of that same season or even a season or two later.)
Bailing on the show after only two episodes is precisely the problem with TV-watchers these days and why networks are always so quick to grab the hook. Not every show can gallop out of the gate, hell, I'd argue it took Agents of SHIELD nearly half it's season to really take-off, find footing, and be something special. There were all kinds of problems with that series at first, a Mary Sue character, rambling tech-position characters, Freak-of-the-Week story telling, bland, stiff, characters (Ward, May at the beginning) but as the series wore on, particularly after TWS came out and SHIELD started tying in) the series found footing and became pretty darn good.
I think the show deserves being toughed out, certainly for a little longer than two episodes.
And campy? Not campy at all. Overacted a bit? Sure. But that doesn't make it campy.