Unfortunately. That's why I would have liked the new films to start putting some order into this. Since Star Trek tried to create a universe with a certain degree of complexity, they could have tried to respect more these rules. In other fantasy universes such as Lord of the Rings or Game of Thrones, there is an acceptable relationship between time / distance of travel that is fairly respected throughout the plot (in GOT, only books, since the TV series gave Varys and Littlefinger teleporters). So, if women are the ones who seek revenge (let's say, a Beatrix Kiddo-type) everything would be okay? XD Still, I do agree the villains of the movies seem to be only motivated by revenge.