While incel started as being short for that, these days it refers to a certain subset of them.I'm involuntarily celibate (and at my age, resigned to it), and it doesn't piss me off.
While incel started as being short for that, these days it refers to a certain subset of them.I'm involuntarily celibate (and at my age, resigned to it), and it doesn't piss me off.
Does anyone outside of hard core Trek fans even know of its existence?
Involuntary celibate and incel aren’t the same thing. An involuntary celibate is anyone who suffers from the condition. An incel is someone who adheres to a vile misogynistic philosophy.
I dunno. It gets points because its depiction of a matriarchal society pisses off incels.
I should mention that while I consider incel philosophy to be vile, I am not totally without sympathy for its adherents. Involuntary celibacy is an extremely painful condition to live with. That kind of pain, over time, inevitably generates anger. You can either direct that anger outward, becoming an incel or misotheist, or direct it inward and become a self-hating depressive. The condition is simply incompatible with being psychologically healthy.
Doesn’t work that way. I know a lot of people think that incel philosophy is the cause (rather than result) of involuntary celibacy and that they can cure the condition simply by giving up the philosophy, but that’s just not reality.Or one can be self-reflective and try to figure out how they came to that point in their lives.
Doesn’t work that way. I know a lot of people think that incel philosophy is the cause (rather than result) of involuntary celibacy and that they can cure the condition simply by giving up the philosophy, but that’s just not reality.
So if they just reflect a little and rethink the philosophy, the problems go away? Is that what you think?If one isn't willing to be, at least, a little self-reflective, then a lot of the problems they simply aren't going to be able to escape.
So if they just reflect a little and rethink the philosophy, the problems go away? Is that what you think?
They do ask themselves that question. The only answers they can find are in incel philosophy, misotheism, or self-hate.No. "Why am I the way I am?" is usually a good place to start, though.
They do ask themselves that question. The only answers they can find are in incel philosophy, misotheism, or self-hate.
You have to blame someone. It’s a psychological necessity. Blame yourself, blame women, or blame God.I don't see the link between incel philosophy and god-hating.
You have to blame someone. Blame yourself, blame women, or blame God.
They hold those beliefs because they need an explanation for their suffering.You shouldn't be looking to blame someone. You should be looking for reasons why you hold the beliefs that you do.
They hold those beliefs because they need an explanation for their suffering.
I never said it did.It doesn't mean those beliefs are their answers.
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