To each their own.For me, realism is hit and miss. It depends on the story being told. When it comes to post-apocalyptic, I want it to be dark, gritty, emotionally devastating, trauma is part of daily life. Terminator got this right.
Terminator can pound sand for all I care. It should be left in the dustbin, save for the technological development that Cameron managed in T2. But, other than that, no.
But, I work with trauma on the daily in my job. Trauma in daily life in my TV shows is not my sought after entertainment.