I apologize, I feel like I'm hijacking this thread so let me answer Red Ranger then I'll take it easy.
^Strider,
I'll at least commend you for being consistent on being not only against abortion but the death penalty. That makes you unique.
Not exactly, but I understand what you're saying. A LOT of evangelical Christians think they can be pro-war and pro-death penalty but pro-life when it comes to abortion. That's a profoundly illogical position and I think that's why it gets a lot of press. I come from a non-denominational background and am planning to join the Catholic Church, in a small part because they seem to me to have a much more coherent philosophy of life. Most Catholics I've met express opposition to the taking of human life in any context, including the death penalty. I believe that human life has intrinsic value from conception to natural death and that it isn't our right to mess with that, no matter how much we might want to.
The problem with the pro-life folks is that not only do they want to stop abortions -- a not completly unlaudable goal -- they also want to restrict or prohibit any information or services of a contraceptive nature, which includes funding for sex education, like the governor of Alaska (we see how well that worked for her daughter). It amounts to (mostly) men trying to force women to have children.
Yeah, I don't like that either. Here's the thing, I think there's a lot of merit to the Catholic Church's idea of natural family planning and sexual morals and it's opposition to birth control. I think it's a philosophy that actually embraces and cherishes sexuality a great deal, but in a different way than 21st Century America would recognize. That said, in the real world it's just not going to work for everyone. A lot of people just flat out disagree with it or find it to be too demanding or whatever. You have every right to disagree. America isn't a Catholic/Christian nation and it never should be. The establishment clause is a wonderful thing. That's why I can't really oppose distributing condoms and making birth control available. However, understand that there's a not-altogether-misguided reason that many people oppose birth control. I disagree with them, but I do understand them.
No one would disagree with you, least of all me. Of course, you wouldn't support a woman's right to kill her two-year-old child, right? I see a moral equivalence between killing a born child and an unborn child. I also believe the state has a right to interfere in cases of murder. You are free to disagree with one or both of these positions, but just know that this is where we disagree. I'm pretty feminist about most things. That's not the issue.
Some people would argue that men masturbating is killing life, too. I'm sure there's some sect out there preaching that.
I imagine that's the case. If that were true, women would be committing murder ever time they menstruated. I believe it's a combination of the sperm and egg that creates a new human life. If people want to think that jacking off=genocide, I guess that's their right.
I stand by my statement that the pro-choice option, as implied by the word, means there are options.
Red Ranger
Fair enough, for that you have my respect. One option for preventing a pregnancy is to kill both the mother and the fetus at the same time. Of course, we both detest that option so you're already okay with limiting some options. Where to set the limit is what we disagree on.