I give up trying to defend my choice and my innocent remark. Quarrel amongst yourselves.
I thought it was a good idea. Evidently, the 'experts'

disagree. Much like television Trek itself, original ideas are quickly quelled in favor of the producers' ideas (or lack thereof).
Gee, how astute. I am indeed a manifestation of the producers' collective will, flitting about putting down groundbreaking ideas in the name of Berman-Braga orthodoxy.
What horseshit.
Back on topic, I don't have a homophobic bone in my body, but I've never supported a gay character in Trek. It has nothing to do with my faith or my politics, and everything to do with the fact that Trek has always, always always handled romance badly. Sex and love episodes in Trek make me cringe, and since adding a gay character would become politicized (no matter the intentions of the show runners), I'd just as soon not have a lot of eyes drawn to the inevitable train wreck.
The same producers who think the key is improved ratings is showing off tits in tighter suits rather than improving the dramatic quality of a show are not the same people we should trust to explore this particular human issue with anything even approaching maturity.
oldstredshrtevr, if you'd thicken your skin momentarily, you'll find that I don't, per se, disagree with you. Harry certainly could have used something, anything, to set him apart, to hopefully serve as a magnet for some drama and story ideas. But the idea that you can take a blank slate (a slate appallingly left blank, there was so much potential there) and make it interesting by turning him gay touches on both parts of my objection.
1. The only reason to do it would be to draw some attention to the character, and that would bring out the inevitable politicization I referenced above. I can't think of anything worse for Voyager than Harry Kim becoming the talked-about character. Were I gay, I'd be insulted by that rather feeble frickin'-bone throwing.
2. Harry Kim didn't suck as a character due to some accident or fluke. He sucked because the producers created him, had no idea what to do with him, and turned him into DudeUhura, pushing buttons and giving status reports. And I just don't trust the same writers who couldn't handle him while he was of no particular sexuality to suddenly get a grip on how to develop a character the instant he became a homosexual.
The idea above of turning an already complex, multi-layered character gay is far, far more appealing, Garak indeed being the best example.