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If his fiance wants to refrain from pre-marital sexual contact, it's her choice, she shouldn't be called "childish" just because her beliefs differ from others'. A bit harsh, that.
 
They can keep their affairs private by not posting them on a global messageboard. Then they don't get criticised for being seriously juvenile.
 
They can keep their affairs private by not posting them on a global messageboard. Then they don't get criticised for being seriously juvenile.

Beat me to it. If people don't want their private lives commented on, then don't put it out there for others to comment on.

She also felt that we were getting too physical, i.e. kissing too much. She felt that we were gonna do the deed before marriage, and neither of us want that.
So you don't have enough self control to keep in your pants, or her to keep her legs closed? Fates above, your both adults. Adults can kiss and be affection it without it leading to sex.
 
on top of that, a bit odd that she'd decide to end the relationship rather than just remind you to keep it in your pants, especially if you both claim to want to wait for marriage. Why dump you rather than just talk to you about it? We're still dancing around that 'big' issue, I think...
 
on top of that, a bit odd that she'd decide to end the relationship rather than just remind you to keep it in your pants, especially if you both claim to want to wait for marriage. Why dump you rather than just talk to you about it? We're still dancing around that 'big' issue, I think...
Given her new "excuse", I'm leaning toward her already having had sex and not told him.
 
She also felt that we were getting too physical, i.e. kissing too much. She felt that we were gonna do the deed before marriage, and neither of us want that.

Ah, I can understand that. When I was active in the born again community, I remember the guy (Josh something???) who talked about how he and his wife refrained from physical contact, even kissing, until they were married.

I knew a lot of people of both sex who agreed with his views, and I can see how she would feel that way.

I wish you the best of luck, but I do encourage you to look at your relationship with an objective view.
 
Abortion is a big issue to us, probably the biggest. We are disappointed that Obama will get to appoint liberal judges who won't overturn Roe V. Wade. Sometimes, she cries for aborted babies, literally.

She was disturbed.


This makes no sense to me. Bush has had EIGHT years to do something about it if it was that important and hasn't but your girlfriend is mad at Obama? :wtf:
 
Beliefs or not, I say that the two of you need to tear off a slice and go at it like drunk monkeys. Quit fiddle-farting around.
 
on top of that, a bit odd that she'd decide to end the relationship rather than just remind you to keep it in your pants, especially if you both claim to want to wait for marriage. Why dump you rather than just talk to you about it? We're still dancing around that 'big' issue, I think...
Given her new "excuse", I'm leaning toward her already having had sex and not told him.
Ditto. And judging by that card she sent him, it looks as though she might want to kill him. Apostle, have you taken out any life insurance policies lately with her named as a beneficiary?
 
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