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Is it (partially) because you lost so much weight, apostle? The timing is rather curious.
I don't think so, though she had always encouraged me to "get healthy." This was always done within the context of conversations about doctor visits, and she never phrased it about anything other than health. :shrug:
 
We are back together!

Congrats! And, I'm more optimistic than the others in the this thread.

Mr Awe
'Tanks!

We are currently in an election dispute though. She thinks I'm not taking it seriously enough that Barak won, but I'm telling her we have to be positive. The thing is... I like the disagreement. I like persuading her. I must be weird.

Two things:

Tell her, it's a fantastic thing that Obama is elected so no worries there! ;)

And, two, I really wouldn't push this issue now. Let it slide and just focus on rebuilding the relationship. You might like it but she may not.

Mr Awe
 
Well, I'm not happy Obama won either. I did more to try to stop it than she did, and probably feel more strongly about it. I just refuse to cry over spilt milk and she is genuinely disturbed.
 
Well, I'm not happy Obama won either. I did more to try to stop it than she did, and probably feel more strongly about it. I just refuse to cry over spilt milk and she is genuinely disturbed.

I find it disturbing that she is disturbed. This is the system in action and you should remind her that we cannot (nor should not) win all the time.
 
Abortion is a big issue to us, probably the biggest. We are disappointed that Obama will get to appoint liberal judges who won't overturn Roe V. Wade. Sometimes, she cries for aborted babies, literally.

She was disturbed.
 
Abortion is a big issue to us, probably the biggest. We are disappointed that Obama will get to appoint liberal judges who won't overturn Roe V. Wade. Sometimes, she cries for aborted babies, literally.

She was disturbed.

You have to look at more than one issue. The big picture. Life is more complex than black or white.

You two voted how you felt. However, the majority feel differently and have spoken.

This should not be an issue in your personal relationship. If it is, I have less reason to feel optimistic for you two.

Mr Awe
 
We are back together!

Congrats! And, I'm more optimistic than the others in the this thread.

Mr Awe
'Tanks!

We are currently in an election dispute though. She thinks I'm not taking it seriously enough that Barak won, but I'm telling her we have to be positive. The thing is... I like the disagreement. I like persuading her. I must be weird.
You should try the rough angry sex. :cool:

Abortion is a big issue to us, probably the biggest. We are disappointed that Obama will get to appoint liberal judges who won't overturn Roe V. Wade. Sometimes, she cries for aborted babies, literally.

She was disturbed.
Does she cry for actual babies killed in places like Iraq by American bombs and American caused terrorism? How about American children and others who die because of an inability to access adequate healthcare? Also, does she cry for families broken up by the immigration department?
 
She sent me this picture last night:
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I loved it. :) I taught her how to shoot, and she wants to take me to the Smith & Wesson range this weekend.
 
I find that creepy. Play Misty for me part II.

Yeah. It IS creepy. I wonder if she wanted to come back because she's lonely and hasn't found anyone else.

Did you guys WORK out your problems? Or just ignore them and get back together?

I don't want to rain on your joy, but, if this is a serious relationship then you need to work on the problems and not just pretend they didn't happen.
 
Abortion is a big issue to us, probably the biggest. We are disappointed that Obama will get to appoint liberal judges who won't overturn Roe V. Wade. Sometimes, she cries for aborted babies, literally.

She was disturbed.
Uh huh. Just like every Republican is allegedly going to pack the court with so many Conservative judges that Roe V. Wade will be over-turned forever :rolleyes:
 
the religious differences, or the actual reasons why she dumped you? Because I'd put real money that the two were not entirely the same, and the religious conflicts were just symptoms of the larger problem. If you've only "fixed" the religious problems (and only then by knuckling under and changing your religious beliefs), then you're setting yourself up for a bit fall a bit later on...
 
She also felt that we were getting too physical, i.e. kissing too much. She felt that we were gonna do the deed before marriage, and neither of us want that.
 
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