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Well, today I got indications from some mutual friends that she basically did this because she is freaking out about moving, holding me back, etc. And also because she was worried about where I would stay when I went to visit her as she doesn't know anyone.

Girl... I would get a hotel every week to see you!
 
^ So why didn't she try and work these issues out with you? Why did she think it would be better to cause you intense pain?
 
^ So why didn't she try and work these issues out with you? Why did she think it would be better to cause you intense pain?
You know, I don't know. Maybe she thought it would be for the best? Mybe I did something to indicate that I wasn't in a mood to work it out? I know she got some "advice" from an older woman - maybe she did what the woman felt was right instead of what she knew was right.

I don't know. All I know is that this makes me, strangely, feel way better. I feel peace - I know I'm not down for the count.
 
Everything Apostle's saying that her friends are saying seem variations on the old tried and true "It's not you, it's me" theme.
 
I know absolutely nothing about religion but I think I have a pretty good relationship with god and its just my opinion along with my understanding of god that he/she would want you to be happy during your time on earth and that in the rare instance two people should find love god would want to be the last cause those two people would separate. We will have plenty of time to figure theological questions out when we die and with any luck ask god him/herself. Until then don't ruin (you or her) the wonderful opportunity of each other god has provided over questions that are neither right nor wrong until we are dead.

Now speaking just as a man you march to her door step and get your woman back!
 
^ So why didn't she try and work these issues out with you? Why did she think it would be better to cause you intense pain?

An excellent point. Not to be harsh but maybe you're better off without her...


If she's not mature enough to handle the question: where will you stay when you visit me...and instead turns to breaking up with you....there are problems deeper than "I think I'm holding you back."
 
I think some of us might be forgetting that people in love do some stupid, stupid things from time to time.
 
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