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Whoops. I don't know why, but I thought you were a man. Sorry about that.
Anyway, nothing wrong with pagans. I'm one myself.
I totally misread that. Sorry. After the picture thread, I had to come back here and see what I missed.
I think that you have a new best-selling diet book waiting to be written . . .
She called me today. Again. To, again, finalize our plans to meet and exchange the dog.
It just sounds weird hearing her voice without love in it.
Whatever may be, at least I'm still on my diet, still enrolled in school this fall, getting out with friends, and moving on with my life.
But I still do love her.
It just sounds weird hearing her voice without love in it.
Whatever may be, at least I'm still on my diet, still enrolled in school this fall, getting out with friends, and moving on with my life.
But I still do love her.
^ For the most part, you're doing everything right.
Give it time.
Give it time.
For what - the pain to go away, or the dream to come true?
The pain. Give up on the dream. It ain't happening, Hollywood has tainted your mind with happy endings.
Yeah, sounds like she's moved on. And you need to accept in your mind that she has. If you meet her with any expectation that the relationship will continue your heart will be broken even more.
I'm giving her a laptop backpack that she said she'd wanted (I now use a briefcase) for school.
I put a copy of Antwon Fisher into the backpack, wrote a thank you note for the relationship that left things open ended, and put it at my door. It's going to be tough driving. I've been trying not to go to sleep, as it will come sooner if I do.
I put a copy of Antwon Fisher into the backpack, wrote a thank you note for the relationship that left things open ended, and put it at my door. It's going to be tough driving. I've been trying not to go to sleep, as it will come sooner if I do.
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Two months ago my wife just decided she didn't want to be with me anymore and left. No fight, no argument, she was just...gone.
I wouldn't worry about how long it will take to get over her. Just let it be, life will go on one way or another.
^She already knows how you feel. Telling her again will only appear as desperation. She already knows that you want her back. The choice is hers now.
Which would tend to support the idea that it was more than a simply religious difference. She just used that as the "Easy" way of letting you down.
I say she'd already moved on before they broke-up. She might have been waiting for the opportunity or formulating the best let down.
If anything it might reaffirm her choice not to be him anymore, as well as lowering her opinion of him by making him look weak and sniveling. And her family and friends might firmly slot him into the "creepy ex boyfriend to watch out for" category.
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^ Right on the mark about the creepy ex thing. IMHO
I am really sorry Apostle. I do know how it feels to be that devistated. I loved someone that deeply once before. It probably feels like you cant breathe right now, like everything is spinning. As if, you are just floating through time and everything is surreal.
It will take time, alot of it. It wasnt until a couple months ago that I truly got over my ex. It had been a year or so since the break up. I think the reason it took so long is becuase I became that snivveling winy "please tell me what to do to get you back" type. I got yo-yoed around for a long time becuase of it. He was conviniently never really sure how he felt about me when he didnt have another girl around. Used the opportunity to get what he wanted out of me. Then when another girl came around I was the ex again. Not his "friend".
Do yourself a huge favor. Dont do that to yourself. You will only degrade yourself. Make yourself feel like a lesser person. Please take my word for it. I wanted forever with this guy. All I got was pain. Please help yourself by separating from the situation and from her. Dont contenue contact with her for any other reason than custody of your "child" the dog.
I am really sorry Apostle. I do know how it feels to be that devistated. I loved someone that deeply once before. It probably feels like you cant breathe right now, like everything is spinning. As if, you are just floating through time and everything is surreal.
It will take time, alot of it. It wasnt until a couple months ago that I truly got over my ex. It had been a year or so since the break up. I think the reason it took so long is becuase I became that snivveling winy "please tell me what to do to get you back" type. I got yo-yoed around for a long time becuase of it. He was conviniently never really sure how he felt about me when he didnt have another girl around. Used the opportunity to get what he wanted out of me. Then when another girl came around I was the ex again. Not his "friend".
Do yourself a huge favor. Dont do that to yourself. You will only degrade yourself. Make yourself feel like a lesser person. Please take my word for it. I wanted forever with this guy. All I got was pain. Please help yourself by separating from the situation and from her. Dont contenue contact with her for any other reason than custody of your "child" the dog.
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Leave the note at home. Giving it to her now is only going to cause more problems between you two.
[Lurch]You rang.[/Lurch] I'm not going to pretend that I agree with the sentiment about "women playing games and being treacherous bitches", because I know that there a lot of nice women out there. It's just that all that have shown some interest in me at some point have all thus far fit the description in the qoute
I'm not perfect, and I don't pretend to be. But I've decided that people only get one chance with me on some things.
ACTUNG!!! THIS PEENIS EEZ YOURS FRAULEIN!
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