Dropped my heart on the floor, broke it into pieces

[Itisnotlogical]

Well, if you like the title, I'll know that at least my wit isn't moving away to Idaho.

Yes, it sucks but it's true, my girlfriend is moving away to Idaho. It sucks very much. We, for all intents and purposes, ended our relationship last night. We're still friends for however long she's staying (she hasn't mentioned an exact date for moving), but never the less I am now single, and I can say within the borders of my capacious powers of reasoning that it's gonna be lame.

I felt like sharing all this with somebody, but the only person I haven't already told is my batty mother who would only want me to get with the prettiest girl with the highest grades and the most on-the-ball on world events. And only then, we could only meet in the libraries to study, never to share a pizza or large cup of Coke. Anybody other than who she views to be "perfect" for me is, in her eloquent words, "a slut". You can see the inherent problems involved with discussing an ex-girlfriend who listens to death metal and dyes her hair black with my mother.

So, in short, that leaves all you guys to discuss my problems with. Does any of you have a large tub of ice cream, a bed with way too many blankets and some tacky old romance novels I could borrow?

 

[Kestra]

I have ice cream, e-hugs, comfy blankets and a snuggly cat if that helps!

Sorry to hear that about your relationship. I don't have any words of advice, but you can PM me if you ever need to talk.

 

[Kitty Worrier]

I'm sorry to hear that!

I have ice-cream, a few romance novels, tons of blanekts, and a couple cats too, if you like.

Seems rough to end it now, but I guess that may be better than being in a relationshiop with an expriation date.

 

[BolianAuthor]

I do like the title... even though the story behind it kinda sucks.

I've been in two LTRs, so I know how a breakup feels... the best to you, and I hope the pain doesn't last long.

 

[Admiral_Young]

I am sorry to hear that as well...my last relationship was a long distance one and it was working for a short while but we were really deluding ourselves and ended it. We're still friends and chat every once in a while but it still hurt like hell at the time and I've not been in a relationship since...due to my circumstances really rather than anything else.

 

[Kelso]

Wow, that sucks.

Is her move the only reason for ending the relationship? Is there some reason that you couldn't move to Idaho as well?

 

[SeerSGB]

Wow, that sucks.

Is her move the only reason for ending the relationship? Is there some reason that you couldn't move to Idaho as well?

Or do the long-distance thing.

 

[Shatnertage]

Sorry to hear that, itsnotlogical. I can't really say anything that'll make it better, but you never know how these things turn out.

 

[Garak]

Try to get a pity fuck before she leaves!

It's important.

 

[Tora Ziyal]

Sending my sympathy and an e-tub of ice cream.

 

[TrickyDickie]

Don't look at it as an ending, but rather a beginning. As she is stepping out of your life, Miss Right may be getting ready to step into it.

Best Wishes

 

[Captain_Nick]

Go get yourself another girlfriend ace

 

[Itisnotlogical]

Wow, that sucks.

Is her move the only reason for ending the relationship? Is there some reason that you couldn't move to Idaho as well?

Or do the long-distance thing.

I can't move to Idaho because I have not near enough money to attempt such a thing; she's moving in with her family there for the same reason. Also, neither of us are very big believers in the strength of e-romance. I'll miss her very much, but I think the healthiest thing for both of us will be to simply remain friends and move on.