I was talking to my sister today about Dr. Crusher's personality. In a way, she seems a little cold to me. Not that she is a rude person or doesn't have emotions, but she seemed a little harsh sometimes.
For example, in the episode The Perfect Mate, Picard is in his quarters explaining to Bev his difficulties interacting with Kamala. Bev's response was something like, "well, I wish I could help you Jean-Luc." And she didn't even seem sincere when saying that. I don't know if it is just me, but if I am "pouring out my heart" to a close friend and their response is just "I wish I could help you" then I would be offended! Even if they didn't know what to say, they should just listen and keep their mouth shut. Or say something like, "I know this must be hard for you." Of course she cares about Jean-Luc as a friend, but she didn't seem very compassionate or even diplomatic at that moment. Of course, you could just say Bev responded like that because she didn't like what Kamala represented (a woman spending her whole life in slavery waiting to get married... and also a man that could have any man on the Enterprise that she wanted).
Bev has seemed harsh at other times too, but I feel to tired (and too lazy) to think of any right now. My sister says that Bev is just to the point about things and that she isn't cold. I'm not trying to make this an anti-Bev or Bev thrashing thread. I always liked the character. I am just wondering if anyone else ever thought this about her.
For example, in the episode The Perfect Mate, Picard is in his quarters explaining to Bev his difficulties interacting with Kamala. Bev's response was something like, "well, I wish I could help you Jean-Luc." And she didn't even seem sincere when saying that. I don't know if it is just me, but if I am "pouring out my heart" to a close friend and their response is just "I wish I could help you" then I would be offended! Even if they didn't know what to say, they should just listen and keep their mouth shut. Or say something like, "I know this must be hard for you." Of course she cares about Jean-Luc as a friend, but she didn't seem very compassionate or even diplomatic at that moment. Of course, you could just say Bev responded like that because she didn't like what Kamala represented (a woman spending her whole life in slavery waiting to get married... and also a man that could have any man on the Enterprise that she wanted).
Bev has seemed harsh at other times too, but I feel to tired (and too lazy) to think of any right now. My sister says that Bev is just to the point about things and that she isn't cold. I'm not trying to make this an anti-Bev or Bev thrashing thread. I always liked the character. I am just wondering if anyone else ever thought this about her.