I'm an adoptee too. I've no contact with my biological parents partly because I don't know if I'd cause them grief if I did. It's been thirty-five years... I'd probably open up old wounds. If I needed contact, it would be for medical info. We could do that by letters if needs be.
ETA: My great-grandmother on my dad's side differentiated between blood kin and adopted kin. She's lucky I found out about that after she was gone.
ETA: My great-grandmother on my dad's side differentiated between blood kin and adopted kin. She's lucky I found out about that after she was gone.