Yes. That's what I want. Star Trek isn't a documentary. If you decide to extend a 50 year old franchise I think you should just embrace the anachronisms. Most tech trends, if they were to continue for the next couple hundred years, would likely spell the end of humans we know it in favor of some Kubruck A.I. lifeform or some CRISPR-style genetically engineered immortal humans. It's unlikely we'd be tooling around starships with a captain barking orders like Horatio Hornblower.
Star Trek may not be a documentary, but its supposed to be an optimistic version of the future. OUR future. You're entitled to your opinion, but ther's always been changes between series. None of them are as significant as with Disco, I agree completely. But I also have no problem with the idea of extrapolating an optimistic version of our future. You disagree. That's fine.
But as @fireproof78 just responded and I concur, it is a suspension of disbelief.