Doctor Mora's influence on Odo.

[Codo123455199652]

I say it's shades of Gray.. because I came from an abusive family too and I understand where oto came from when he jumped on Dr Mora for Dr Moras narcissistic behavior. And you can look at Dr Mora and how he acted around Odo and can see narcissist written all over his face. And it's awful funny when Odo had told Dr Mora that Dr Mora had hurt him while he was under Dr Morris care that Dr Mora tried to turn the tables on Odo.. and in the one of the first episodes the alternate of when Odo had to start screaming at the doctor for Odo to be heard.. and he grew I understand that I don't know what's affected by some gas on that planet.. but finally Auto let loose and had let Dr Mora have it!!!! I know what it's like because I finally have to start screaming and stop dealing with toxic people that gave me a hard time during my childhood and even after the fact after I moved out on my own they would come in my apartment and mess with my stuff break stuff ram sack the place speaking because I was their daughter they could do whatever they wanted and get away with it until I turned of age to where I knew what they were doing and I knew what they were and I shouted no more if you come around here again I'm calling the authorities. Just saying. I don't see Dr Mora as a villain but I do see him as a control freak around Odo and Otto stood his ground I'm pleased to what Odo did.. because Odo taught me to stay in my ground and don't let people feel welcome when they break into my home well I'm in the house trying to keep my peace of mind he said if anybody comes their uninvited don't let them feel welcome.. just saying. And yes they used to term spoil the rod and spare the child as a cop out because they don't teach the kids what the meanings of the rules are they just said because I told you so or what difference does it make I'm the parent you do what I say etc.. our heavenly father did not teach us to be that way.. she back in the 1950s we were like seen but not heard.. I'm sorry but I don't jive that way just because we were the kids and grown up for the grown ups did not give them the right to torment us like we were to slaves and they were the master.. just saying and yes I threatened to go to her to social services at one point I told another foster child which by the way I was adopted into crazy family in the first place just go tell social services about how she was treating me.. here's what she said i came home from school one day.. she said that if I ever had did that again that she would take the belt and beat me with it until I died.. narcissistic people will do whatever it takes to get what they want why do you think naboth was Stone to death by Jezebel because Jezebel was narcissist.. just saying and unfortunately we're stuck in a narcissistic generation to where there's no safe Haven away from them they think they're in charge but let them believe what they want to believe since we know the truth that's all that matters we don't have to answer them because they're not our father. Although taught me a lot from the year May the 5th of 1996 up to now Renee auberjonois may be gone but the remembering Odo is still here that will not die until I die.. Odo gets the best part if it wasn't for Odo I would have never been interested in DS9.

 

[Codo123455199652]

Which I'm not saying we should not forget but I'm saying don't let people walk all over us like we're the walking carpet and that we're a pushover cuz we should never be pushovers to wear we just lay down there and take it!!!! I don't feel we should have to especially when people like Odo and me were treated unfairly during our childhood!! Just saying!!

 

[kkt]

Dr. Mora was far from the perfect parent, even he agreed with that. But I'm thinking about the help humans get when they're raising children: advice and help from relatives, a pediatrician, teachers, help books. Dr. Mora had to completely make it up on his own. When the baby changeling turned up, maybe the best thing to do would have been to bring it to the Great Link, where they presumably know how to raise their young. If they could figure out how to deliver it without getting themselves or the baby shot.

 

[Codo123455199652]

Dr. Mora was far from the perfect parent, even he agreed with that. But I'm thinking about the help humans get when they're raising children: advice and help from relatives, a pediatrician, teachers, help books. Dr. Mora had to completely make it up on his own. When the baby changeling turned up, maybe the best thing to do would have been to bring it to the Great Link, where they presumably know how to raise their young. If they could figure out how to deliver it without getting themselves or the baby shot.

It's awful sad though that people like Odo have to start screaming to get people to understand that we want to be left alone and stop being poked and make fun of but other adults that tease and ridiculous because we are different from the rest of the family!! Just saying!! I am a 49 year old woman with disabilities I was the slower one of the family and everybody made fun of me because of it! And yes believe me I know where Odo came from and how he felt because he was different from everybody else just like I was different and still am different from the rest of my family which now I'm not very close to you anymore because they showed their true colors around me.. and when a parent goes into a 48-year-old woman's apartment it starts ransacking her place and stealing from her she's got a problem and if she ever does it again she's going to jail cuz I will be pressing charges against her if she does it again.. just saying.

 

[Codo123455199652]

It's awful sad though that people like Odo have to start screaming to get people to understand that we want to be left alone and stop being poked and make fun of but other adults that tease and ridiculous because we are different from the rest of the family!! Just saying!! I am a 49 year old woman with disabilities I was the slower one of the family and everybody made fun of me because of it! And yes believe me I know where Odo came from and how he felt because he was different from everybody else just like I was different and still am different from the rest of my family which now I'm not very close to you anymore because they showed their true colors around me.. and when a parent goes into a 48-year-old woman's apartment it starts ransacking her place and stealing from her she's got a problem and if she ever does it again she's going to jail cuz I will be pressing charges against her if she does it again.. just saying.

That's why Odo walked out on Dr Mora because more I thought his crap didn't stink and yes it did he was no villain but he was hard on Odo just like my parents were hard on me because I had a learning disability and I couldn't help it but I was made fun of it ridiculed because of it.

 

[kkt]

Your parents still feel free to enter your apartment without you there when you're 48? Wow. Reading what you posted was thinking maybe it was when you were 19 or something. Do they have a key? If so, you might change your locks as well as telling her you'd press charges. Good luck with all this.

 

[TheSeeker]

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