The Clone Race from Up The Long Ladder were post-sexual.
Given the trouble with incest that would have shown up immediately when anyone younger or older or the same age as you might be genetically identical to your children, your parents, your siblings or yourself, if there is a Gene that promotes sexual appetite in magic Star Trek fakescience, it would have been turned inside out or snipped off for the safety of the community.
"Genetically forced" homosexuality, or mass sterilization would have been the only safe options left to a massive non-diverse clone stock if they didn't want to be overrun by simpletons and mutants.
So when Picard said that every 3 unlike clones had to together marry some savage who still thought it was 1740 AD, that was not taking into account existing marriages or sexual orientation, or even in this case the very absence of sexual orientation/inclination.
A little brutal.
Yeah, I always had a problem with Pulaski dictating how those people should arrange their personal lives.
It didn't show a grain of respect for how those people lived or wanted to live, especially since despite what's shown on screen all of those people wouldn't be heterosexual. Not only would there probably be gays who didn't want one opposite sex spouse, let alone three, the clones seemed to be living as asexual. It was also pretty naive to presume that marriage, heterosexuality, polygamy, etc were all the best way to further their species. Surely artificial insemination would be a simple alternative to begin with.
The whole thing just shows the Federation not respecting the way all of those people were living, surely a violation of the Prime Directive in spirit if not the actual letter of the law.
The state mandating who you sleep with, how many children you have and by whom...that's invasion to a really creepy level if you think it through. I don't think it's an exaggeration to see that as potentially resulting in state mandated rape.