Starfleet does not lie.Yes they lie about it all the time.
Or the Chinese Coast Guard, or the British Coast Guard, or the Australian Coast Guard, or the Russian Coast Guard, or the Indonesia Coast Guard, or the JMSDF, all of which are statutory non-military organizations. They're also setup like many police forces around the country, which are if anything MORE like a military than Starfleet with the increasing popularity of "threat elimination" rules of engagement.The whole thing is set up like the US coast Guard
The only fact that is being ignored here is the fact that Starfleet officers in three different centuries have explicitly said the organization they work for is not a military organization. You can either reject this fact, or you can accept it and use it to shape your interpretations. That you would PREFER to do the former doesn't make you right.You guys can keep ignoring facts
The Federation is not the United States. And in almost every other country EXCEPT the United States, this is not the case.The US Coast Guard is 100% a branch of the United States military
It's not even clear the concept of "military" actually means anything in the Star Trek universe. We have this really curious example in the case of the Ship of the Dead being stranded for six months and nobody bothers to send a salvage ship or a repair ship until Kol shows up and tells them "We need you back in the fight." This seriously begs the question of whether or not the Ship of the Dead is even a military vessel or part of the Empire's supply chain...
Until you realize there's no such thing as the Klingon military. Strictly speaking, there's no such thing as a Klingon civilian. If you can't fight, you're a slave. If you AREN'T fighting, you better have a damn good reason for it. The Great Houses seem to be waging this entire war with privately-owned ships and weapons to the point that L'Rell is able to muster an entire battlecruiser -- if not a GROUP of them -- just by calling in a favor from her aunts and uncles in House Mokai. It's literally the same situation the U.S. was facing against the Pashtun rebels in Afghanistan; the Taliban doesn't "have" a military wing, it's just a bunch of assholes with a shit ton of guns and a tendency to hold grudges.
More and more data comes in from Trek canon that tells us that by the 23rd century the word "military" has become an adjective and has ceased to be a noun. That is, most planets do not have a "thing" called a military, they have a CATEGORY of things that fall under the definition of "military things." For people like the Klingons and the Romulans, EVERYTHING is a military thing, so the distinction doesn't really mean anything to them.