You are a fan of the films rather than the books - first and foremost I love the original Fleming creation and try to forget the tongue in cheek git from the middle era movies. That's nothing like Bond.
Oh, I've read and enjoyed Fleming, but as I noted in response to
tighr above, it's not necessarily a given that "more like Fleming = better" when it comes to the cinematic Bond. Besides which, the "middle era movies" -- which I guess refers largely to the Roger Moore years -- are my least favorite as well.
I'm not after parody Bond, but what I am after is a Bond whose life and world (the occasional bout of torture and threat of death aside) is enviable and exciting. For at least 20 successful movies, the essence of movieBond was, "Christ, I wish I could be like that suave, witty, deadly, drowning-in-babes bastard." Nobody does it better, the world is not enough, and all that. As I say, I know the current fashion is for everything to be dark and serious and angsty and self-important, and we're supposed to sneer at such wish-fulfillment and escapism as puerile and childish. But I'll take it over Craig glowering his one-note way through another "Flemingesque" performance anytime.