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Hey, I have a rep to maintain. If they think I'm nice and stuff, this whole board will go right to hell!

Oh wait....

Well, I think you have a good heart, T'Bonz, so there. You oftentimes have a caustic tongue, mind you...;)
 
Moderating stressing you out, Holdfast? ;)

Not these days. Too much lovely dirt being raked up, swirled around, and ending up in my in-tray...

I have no idea who my biological father is. When I was about 12 years old my mom and dad pulled me aside and sat me down for what was going to be serious talk. Eventually they told me that my father was not my actual biological father. I responded with "I know", no idea why I said that as I really don't think I did. Then they asked me if I wanted to meet him, I said "no". They asked if I wanted to tell my sister about it or should they, I said I would tell her, but really I planned not to, and never did. This has not been brought up once more in the intervening 22 years. Sometimes I think that I should probably ask about it for health reasons if for no other reason, but then I picture the entire thing blowing up into a dramatic scene and I don't want that really.
 
You should probably find out for health reasons who your biological father is. I don't see why your immediate family would blow up at you, though. If it's because of a helath reason then I don't see why they'd have a problem.
 
Hey, I have a rep to maintain. If they think I'm nice and stuff, this whole board will go right to hell!

Oh wait....

Well, I think you have a good heart, T'Bonz, so there. You oftentimes have a caustic tongue, mind you...;)

Yes but that's a necessary evil! Both T'Bonz and you too Kate always shed insight and light on the topic your commenting on with your personal experience...so thank you lovely ladies.
 
You should probably find out for health reasons who your biological father is. I don't see why your immediate family would blow up at you, though. If it's because of a helath reason then I don't see why they'd have a problem.

Agreed. Arrange for a time to meet with him at least once.
 
Ice & a Slice with that?

My roommate was taking a long shower and I really had to take a piss. I held it for as long as I could, but I eventually relieved myself in a gin bottle. It was not empty.
 
Ice & a Slice with that?

My roommate was taking a long shower and I really had to take a piss. I held it for as long as I could, but I eventually relieved myself in a gin bottle. It was not empty.


That's fine....as long as you didn't put the bottle back.

But come on...you've never heard of pissin in a sink? Ohhh maybe I have my own confession to come clean with. :lol:
 
(...)When you enter the US you go get to fill out a few forms, one that's utterly hilarious because if you answer yes to any of the utterly transpararent questions on it you need to contact the American Embassy before leaving the country. And you get that form when you're already on the plane over Iceland.
(...)
I arrive at customs at Newark in NY. I just wanted to get in, trough the airport quickly, and onward to my connecting flight to Atlanta. Everything goes fine until the guy sees the note. I literally see him freezing up. Part of me goes "Oh...shit!" while the rest holds out for hope.

Anyway he starts asking me more and more questions and I answer truthfully to all of them. Then he says to come with him, and he takes me over to another guy, gets to go with him to a holding area where I am to wait until can be taken care off. After sitting down I realise that there's about one blonde in this area, most of the people are of either arabic or mediteran descent. It's literally the most blatantly racist and prejudieced holding area ever.
Hey Emher, thanks for the story, I for one didn't know it. ;)

I had a similar experience also 3 years ago. (They were tightening security in 2006 or what? :wtf:) I went to the same holding area and made the same observations, looking around the room. I was in Houston airport, needing to catch a connection to San Antonio where I was visiting a friend. I sat as innocently-looking as I could, reading a book, for the cameras.

The reason they detained me was I had spent 4 months in the US on a tourist's visa 10 years before. I was a visiting student (not on a student's visa but just sitting in on classes and using the library for a school term) and when I was informed I could get a 30 day extension to my 90-day tourist visa, a mere formality, I did it so I could stay until the end of the school term. I was having a blast experiencing American campus life - I spent more time having fun than researching for my MA, which is what I was there for. I ended up xeroxing a dozen books on the last week and basing my essay mostly on that. :lol: And I aced it.

Anyway, I went to the US several times between that stay in 1996 and 2006, including to New York in October 2001, but this was the first time they were bringing that up. (I had a brand new passport.) Calling it an overstay, asking me if I paid money for the extension or something. I told the hispanic dude at the desk about my fun time in college and my essay and mentioned the hispanic name of the friend I was visiting :D - precisely a friend from college 10 years before. He finally let me go saying from then on I should carry my old extension paperwork when I want to enter the country. :wtf: I don't know if I have anything besides what appeared on my old passport which I don't have any more of course. They keep it when you get a new one.

I ran and panicked a bit at the long security checkpoint. People were actually missing their connections over that. Whoever they begged, they weren't moved to the front of the line. After the checkpoint I ran like mad through the entire airport and barely made my flight.

I thought, when you love America, the feeling is seldom returned. My friend said this probably happened because it was a small airport and the customs were puffing themselves up, not so busy that they'd let little things slide; that it wouldn't have happened in JFK. But if that sort of thing happened to you in Newark...

I haven't tried entering the USA again yet. :shifty:
Good I brought some joy to you :)

And you story brings again to light my general sentiment about the US: a country full of awesome people and things, but at the same time it's also filled of idiots and idiotic things.

Present company excluded of course.


I will definitely go back to the US at some point though, I thought Atlanta was awesome and I need to see as much as I can of the rest of the country at some point. Plus I have to meet as many of the people on these boards as I can possibly take :lol:
 
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